How do I get my girlfriend of 7 months back?

My girlfriend of 7 months just broke up with me yesterday out of nowhere. she said it was because she starts volleyball monday and i start football and she has to work weekends so we’ll never get to see eachother cause be go to different schools. she also said she just wants some space. but i was just at her house a few days ago and everything seemed fine and a few days before we hungout we were texting and she said she would be the most depressed person ever without me. she says she still loves me. at first she said we are taking a break but now she says we are broken up for now so idk what that means. she said she was thinking about doing this for only a few days. I love her so much and would do anything to get back with her. btw im 17. Please im desperate.

Answer #1

You could try talking to her about it. Call her up on the phone and just say hey I really don’t know why we broke up the other day and it was bothering me, could we talk about it? Or something like that.

Answer #2

She probably feels smuthered, and if she needs some spacem then give her some space. She probably has a lot going on in her life so she needs to focus on herself and not worry about anything. Tell her that you will always be there for her, if she needs a break then give her a break, most likely things will get back to normal if you guys give it some time.

Answer #3

now i guess this girl is just feeling all counfused right now..i mean she sais she’ll be all depressed without u and then the next she sais we dont need to be together no more.What u need to do really is get things straight with her. u need to go and tell her face to face that she doesn’t have to be worried about anyhing cuz ur always gunna be there for her! if she needs space well give her space but that doesn’t mean u cant be there for her, u need to show this girl u love her and that u will always make time for her.Be there after her volleyball practice and surprise her with her favorite thing.or start back to basics and flirt with her her the way u used to.make her feel loved<3

Answer #4

Well you should probaly not go right to asking her out agian …you should try to get close to her as friends.then when you think its time ask her out agian and if she says yes horay but if she rejects you just remebere you can do better

Answer #5

If you still love her express your feelings to her. Give her a gift and remind her of the things you done together. If you do this she will probably think how good you were when she was your girlfriend. Try and say your sorry it didn’t work out try to remember the things she liked and remind her.

Answer #6

Here’s my advice…. though it is risky. If y’all are broken up and you want her back…. you gotta get her to come back not you running back to her. This will be a good thing cause A) it will make her choose you and that she really does love you and B) if it doesn’t get her back and it won’t work out then you’ve already made a step in the right direction. This is how. You can’t give a girl attention all the time… .they love it at first but then feel smothered. I’d tell her if this is what you want…. then I’ll let you go… basically you are showing her that you are taking her feelings into account. Then carry on with your life as it would be if she wasn’t in it. I’m not talking about ignoring her, but basically act like you are over her (don’t tell her you are or aren’t). Talk to new girls, hang out with friends,….. BE HAPPY. Girls like being chased as well as doing a little bit of chasing (I’m sorry if any girls disagrees). Plus girls like to be the center of a guy’s world…. once she realizes she isn’t anymore then she is gonna try and get that back….. and I’m sorry but if all else fails, you’ll have stepped in the right direction for getting over her completely

Answer #7

to be honest, sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe letting go is whats meant to be. UNLESS you messed up the realtionship. then you need to do some apologizing

Answer #8

to be honest, sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe letting go is whats meant to be. UNLESS you messed up the realtionship. then you need to do some apologizing

Answer #9

to be honest, sometimes things happen for a reason, maybe letting go is whats meant to be. UNLESS you messed up the realtionship. then you need to do some apologizing

Answer #10

dont kno

Answer #11

I don’t know why she broke up with you. I have a really close guy friend and he went out with this girl for a couple months, he called me to ask me why, I felt bad for him, he was in the same situation, the girl didn’t give him any reason and he was left hanging. Ever since that happened to my friend if I ever have to break up with a guy I always make sure to give him a reason. I’m sure your girl really does still love you, she might be afraid things are moving to fast because it has been seven months, I wouldn’t think that but you never know. Try making her feel more comfortable, then ask her out again.

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