How can i get her to be my girlfriend ?

What should I do about a girl that is 2 years older than me, and I rarely see her. She works from 12am to 9pm and I work at 7 am to 4pm, and most times I have to go to school. I sometimes go see her at her work place but just for a moment cause I cant stay that long otherwise her boss will be angry at her. She work and live in north district and I live in south, we only see each other on Sunday and that’s only for 4 hours or so we haven’t talked much on the phone yet but I really like her what should I do ?

Also how do I confess my love for here ? do I just say it, and when do I say it before or after the date ?

Answer #1

well my friend, seems like you are really into her. I would take all into consideration. Find out if she is seeing someone. before you make your confession to her, you want to know what your up against! If she is with someone, and you confess to her about how you may feel about her, it may backfire right in your face & you will wind up getting hurt in the process!(not a good idea)

Another way is just say whatever & try your luck, ask her out as a friend, no strings attached for coffee or lunch something neutral not a dinner date! If she says no or makes excuses then you have to accept the fact that she just may not be as into you as you are to her! Question is can you live with that answer? No matter how you approach the situation go with your head held up high, confidence…older women dig a guy who is mature for his age with confidence! (makes all the difference in the world!)

Good Luck!

Answer #2

hmmm..? id say to see if she has a bf..if she doesnt then, go do something fun with her …find her interests? like ex: rollar coasters… so bring her to a amusement park :)

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