What should a girl do about 2 different guys?

I met a guy about 4 months ago, we clicked instantly, we had one proper date to the movies then we pretty much had another one except my friends were there. We kissed at the movies and it was like our 3-5 th kiss. Our first kiss took place by my house, he wanted to meet my parents for some reason and he wouldnt tell me why. His very funny, cute, organised, old school, ambitous, hardworking, dancer, sweet, supportive, helpfull, caring, understandable and trust worthy. My friends has been telling me for months we should be together cos apparently its obvious we like each other, the thing is that we do know that we like each other. But we both got out of a relationship so (him for 4 months ago. Me 5) he said we’ll take things slow. We hang out with each other alot in college but what I dont like is he talks dirty to me in a serious way, but i just want to know if thats what he sees in me, so I pretend im talking dirty back and he’ll like it then say that we should just take it slow so I dont know if the only thing he want is sex or not.

We kind of stopped talking… but 2 weeks ago I met this guy, same race as me and ever since, weve been texting each other, both our mums are close and his mum called my mum happily over the phone and told my mum that her son and me are constantly texting. So my mums fine with him as my bf and they both want us to get together as it seems like it. Im also starting to like him and we’ll see each other in a few days to walk my dogs in the park. However the 1st guy just talked to me and told me he misses my cuddles and kisses and called me beautiful. The 2nd guy has a good sense of humour, cute, smart, respectful, hard working, athletic, funny, fun to be around with and thats what I know about him for now. What should I do?

Answer #1

Maybe you should just get to know them each a bit better as friends so you can be more about which is right for you.

Answer #2

I like the 1st guy aswell but he doesnt seem to respect my dignity as a girl, and I dont know if anything is going to happen with us… I told him I dont do dirty things with friends and he was like ‘what friends kisses?’ so were either going to be friends with benefits, not friends or together as what im getting from him.

Answer #3

if you dont think he respects you, he problably isnt the right guy for you.

Answer #4

If I were in your situation, I would forget about the first guy and go for the second. Any guy who doesn’t seem to respect your dignity and gives you the feeling he only wants sex is definitely not one to keep around.

Answer #5

Well WHO do you like BETTER?

and WHY?

you should ask yourself these questions…..

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