Girlfriend & boyfriend help

Me and my girlfriend have been datin I think now almost 19 months unofficially I think now 3months officially. Weve been talkin to eachother and we think we are ready to go a step further and f**k but evrytime it comes up I get thinkin what consequences itll have but im ready for it and I just want some advice so I can stop second guessing myself

Answer #1

Well sex is great and all but there are plenty of other ‘loving activities’ you guys can do besides the final step.

Answer #2

katie thz but if she does get preg by some chance I love her way to much to leave her and leaving her would literally tear me apart but thz for the adv

Answer #3

second guessing is good. I know that sounds weird but that means that you may think your ready but you arent it can also mean that you arent going to be one of those guys that “pull out” my advice is to get to know as much about sex as possible. then you will truely be ready. I would also suggest using spermicide/ lub and a female condom. the female condom is said to be safer then a male condom. and dont use two because then they will rip and ull have problems. and if you truely love her then go for it but if not then dont. and if she does get pregnant then dont leave her. she is probably just as scared as you are. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

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