getting over him

ok…well i met this guy and completely fell for him, we went out but me being me…i’m always with other guys…well i was with my x-bf on nite nd he tried to do stuff wid me nd he kissed me and tried to feel me up, i told my bf and well he got mad but forgave me….two weeks later…dis guy who pretty much stalks me did the same thing…..i did nothing wrong at all, i backed off…but the thing is i have no confidence in myself and so i couldn’t tell him to stop…i just backed away…i never said no or slapped him…my bf got mad assumed i had cheated on him and dumped me, he said he couldn’t trust me, and didn’t care enough to keep going. I lost him and i was sooo sad i cried fer so long, i callled him back and tried to talk to him, then 2 days later we talked on msn then he called and we talk but nothing was figured out and we didnt talk at skool than we got in a fight on msn…sortta i asked him y he hated me so much and he asked me y i hated him…i said i didnt then he asked y i was calling chris (he bestfriend) but i only called him once, he called me first and was texting me all day after me and him broke up he blocked me and hasnt talked to me since….its been two or three weeks now….i was fine with out him….about an hour ago my friend told me he was with another gurl and was hugging her and kissing her…..my heart completely broke……..i dono what to do…i cant stand him anymore, he broke my heart, and he sed some shyt….but so did i, and i geuss its my fault this all happened and i have to move on, i dont want him back or anything………i cant stand him but i couldnt take it if he was with another girl already, mayb it was his brother they look alike i geuss…..but i geuss im just giving myself false hope…some advice plz? thanx