Getting Fingered

I’ve never been fingered before, and never done it myself either, but theres this guy who I REALLY like, and we are just constantly flirting, sometimes I think he likes me too..and we always talk about meeting up and doing stuff (because we dont go to the same school, so we hardly get to see eachother) and he said he wants to finger me, and im fine with it (because I said I want to do stuff to him too), but im just worried if it will hurt, and what he might think of my, ya knooww. any advice?

Answer #1

It should not hurt, unless you are not properly lubricated first or he is too rough with you.

Don’t worry about what he think of your vagina, if he wants to get in your pants - he will like it.

Although I seriously think you should wait on doing sexual stuff until you are in a relationship with someone you care about - not just some guy you are talking too.

Answer #2

Use lubrication, get yourself into a comfortable position, and don’t be afraid to use the phrase “Be Gentle.” I’ve never been fingered either, so I hope I don’t sound stupid. But other posts have said what I’m saying. Make sure the lubrication is something that is safe and effective. ^^

Answer #3

Whoops,looks like I’m 5 years late!

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