How can I fully get over him and be able to go back to my normal emotional state of mind?

Soo. Me and my bf of almost 2 years broke up. I broke up with him because he was very controlling. But still I miss him and its getting to the point where I just don’t wanna eat or drink and I can’t sleep. It also doesn’t help that the new girl he is talking to (which he bragged to my face about) is skinny while I am a tad over weight. I guess thats when my real emotion started and I guess I am looking for advice. Please help!!

Answer #1

I really don’t believe that you fully get over any relationship. I believe you smile about the good times,remembering things,places,special moments, Learn from them/the relationship and be greatful for whatever reason the Good Lord brought the two of you together and why he chose for it not to work. “GOOD LUCK” Good things come to those who wait and To forgive is devine but forgetting takes time. :-)

And as far as the new friend goes. She obviously does not know what she has in store for her. Thin is in,…………yes,……………But “baby” fts where it’s at! hahahahaha

Answer #2

Two years is a long time but with time, you can get over him completely. Stay away from places you both frequented, and try not to run into him and his new coat-hanger girlfriend :) Get rid of the stuff he gave you, take his picture out of your wallet, erase his number from your cell phone… even change the way you do your hair. If he liked it long, cut it short. If he liked it short, start growing it. All these little rituals will help you resolve the relationship and put it where in belongs - in the tapestry of your life experiences. Before you know it, you’ll be fending off all sorts of males and choosing one who lets you be yourself.

Answer #3

Maybe getting a new boyfriend would help you forget. Get rid of anything that he gave you and any pics of you together

Answer #4

drinking and socializing helps :)

Answer #5

lol sameting happen to me today i broke up with him and now goin out with a other dude it feel wrong now i cant get the thinking of him out of my head in about week or two u will soon forget all about it

Answer #6

Hello! I’ve already experienced that. Just do some fun things to avoid thinking of your boyfriend all the time.

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