What do I do about my friends boyfriend (who also happens to be my best friend)?

Kay, so my friend Brandon recently started going out with my best friend Luke. And Brandon is crying every night because of something Luke does, like for example last night they were supposed to be going out for dinner but Luke got totally stoned and they didn’t end up going. I’ve told Brandon that Luke is definitely not good for him but Brandon won’t listen to me and he just keeps insisting that he loves him. I don’t know what to do because I’m almost positive this is gonna end horribly and I want to get them to break up or at least get Luke to be a better boyfriend to Brandon but I don’t wanna hurt eithe of them and lose them as friends. :( any advice?

Answer #1

It sucks but all you can do is be there for him. Youve told him how you felt, but in the end hes going to d what he wants. If you keep throwing in your opinion your going to push him away. Love makes people stupid sometimes, all you can do is be there to pick up the pieces when he gets his heart broke.

Answer #2

this really is something that brandon needs to talk to luke about, what hes doing obviously bothers your freind, but he shouldnt always be coming to you, he needs to tell his boyfreind what hes doing that is making him upset, because it could end their relationship. they both need to talk to each to work this problem out, tell brandon that he needs to talk to luke about this. also since your close to luke as well perhaps you could tell him whats been happening and why brandons upset if he’s is too scared to say it himself or something

Answer #3

It’s just like.. He’s sort of..fragile like when him and I were dating (he’s my ex -_-) whenever we fought he would like threaten to..do some pretty extreme things : / and like I’m really worried as well that if something happens he’ll like..I dunno hurt himself or something :S

Answer #4

Peeing myself laughing…..if you’re a girl, there’s a good chance you have laughed that hard. It just means that the chuckle they got out of what you said goes far beyond the LOL, LMBO….

Answer #5

Lol!! Phrannie, wrong question >_>

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