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friend problems PLEASE HELP

ok…this is a long story, but here goes. about 8 months ago, my mom went out with this guy (lets call him bob). bob was suposedly rich, great, and all around perfect. he suposedly had a reconstruction thing going on in mississippi. my best friend’s (who I’ve known practically since birth) dad (lets call him bill)went 2 mississippi 2 work 4 him. in reality, bob was broke, but my mom didn’t know that. so bill came back angry because bob wouldn’t pay him, and then bob turned around and said how horrible bill had been (lies). naturally my mom believed bob. then my mom said I couldn’t see my best friends anymore, and she wouldn’t even tell me why! eveytime I asked about them, she would get this dead serious face and say we’ve discussed this before. no we haven’t! the last time I saw my best friends was halloween, and I miss them sooo much! I can’t figure out why my mom is doing this to me! PLEASE HELP!!!

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Answer #1

wait how old are you? If you’re old enough couldn’t you just see your friends without your mom knowing? or do they live far away?

you know what allways works for my mom, tricking her into listening to me, like write up a letter to her or something to that effect, and leave it where she finds it (or u could force it upon her to read if that works better) and she might read it just to see what u’ve written, and because she wont yell at you cause it’s a peice of paper telling her what u have to say, so she wont have a chance to give you a dirty look or whatever, also if u make it really sweet(i dont know if this works with your mom) and act all little-kid-y and desperate to see your friends at the same time, that’ll make her at least want to tell you why you cant see your ‘loving friends who you adore and cant live without (ooo, thats good too you “cant live with out them”- you should say that) i dont know but i hope i’ve helped in some way.

Good luck

Answer #2

ur mom is being unfair to u and your friend she should not drag u into her problems with ur friends dad u should make her listen to u no matter the cost no problem is worth losing ur friend over

Answer #3

tell ur mom ur old enough 2 make ur own descisions and she hasnt discussed this with u and parents always take sum1’s side without understanding

Answer #4

eeerm try to get it out of your mum, theres got to be a good reason. If your mum has made decisions in the past that you understood and respected then maybe thats the case this time but she just cant tell you why yet. Talk to your friends threw the internet like msn and facebook. Write letters to them and stuff but do not disrespect your mum because you will pay later! I once tried that and I ended up living with my grandma for a week seriosly its not a good idea. Beg and pleed if you have to, ask her when shes drunk or half asleep if necassery, there must be a good reason. What happened to you did you mpve or be homeschooled or what because if you look hard enough you will find a way to meet up with them maybe a small white lie to were you are, sure you will be told off if caught but is it worth it, how much do you love your friends? dont do anything without thinking it through! xxx

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