Fourteen and pregnant.

omgee my friend was in the same situation! she is 14 and her boyfriend is 17… he acts like he doesnt really care though! what I told her was to tell her parents because if its anyone your parents will be the ones who will be there for you no matter what…

hope that helps [=

I think that you shouldnt care what your parents think I moved out when I was 13 and I made it just fine ya sure they think they want wats best 4 you but they dont know what is only you do so screw what they have to say and do what you want thats what I did and my life couldnt b betr

your parents dont have an option its your child and your body… well sometimes you just gota pay your troubles… what were you doin havin sex at 14… ?? wow well my best of luck to you is to be carefull. and learn from… this,… your baby is not a mistake… he is a gift so just be thankful:)

Omgsh! im so sorry! but im not trying to be mean but what in the hell are you doing having sex at 14 anyway? like girl! and your boyfriend is 17.. the only reason he is probably with you is either he can’t get anybody his own age. or he just wanted your virginity.

well honestly you need to tell your parents. because you can’t do it all on your own. but what ever you do DO NOT GET A ABORTION! that is the worst thing you can do. but seriously girl, ask your parents to go in a room with you, and like start the conversation off good. just just say IM PREGNET! bc then their gonna snap, because that is probably the last thing that a parent wants to hear from their 14 year old daughter. im 15 and im still a virgin!. my parents would kill me.

Im sorry you have to go through this..

I wish you the best of luck!

I’m 14 and was thinking just the same as you 10 months ago.my boyfriend is 19 and was excited and stuff but I dint want 2 keep them. anyway I went through with it and it was a mistake but when I think about the people who can’t have kids and want them for their whole life then I’m just thankful I’ve got them.

in relation to your parents. I sat down with my boyfriend and when we went rite quiet they guessed so I dint have 2 tell them but nyway just sit ure parents dwn and tell them

Your parents will be the ones who help you through this. Personally, you shouldn’t of had sex at 14. Your parents will be angry and you will get trouble. But, if you want to keep the baby, you must tell them. Anyway, they will start to notice and get suspicious. Don’t let that happen. Tell them right now. And your boyfriend? I wouldn’t be so sure about him. If he is cheating on you, what is the point in staying together with a child?? You have a lot to think about little girl, and a strange future ahead of you. Please, tell your parents and, if your boyfriend doesn’t change, break-up.

I really dont have any advices. but I just wanted to wish you luck on that probelm you have. dude. GOOD LUCK!

you seem very muture for your age.. telling your parrents you are pregnant is hard at any age.. I was 18 and it was still difficult.. they might be mad at first but they will get over it.. my father gave me a speech I was shocked to hear.. he said… the younger you have your kids the more time you have to spend with them.. when anyone is dyiing, the one thing you ask for is more time.. after a loved one dies the the one thing everyone wishes for is one more day with them.. more time.. the best thing about having kids at such a young age is the time you have with them.. and the more things in comon.. I dont sugest everyone have kids fast.. it forces you to give up dreams and grow up fast.. in my case I really wanted to join the military.. and be a nurse.. but the day before my 18th b-day I found out I was pregnet.. I dont believe in abortion.. I myself couldnt live with killing an inocent life.. so instead of being selfish and gettinf rid of the accident.. I had my baby.. it was by far the best thing that happend to my life.. she is now my Life! I think you should have the baby.. I dont think you will regret it at all.. as for the dad.. well chances are you will be a single mom.. but we are dealling with a human life! you made the mistake of having unprotected sex… I just strongly urge you to teach your child differently.. tell them that if they are gonna have sex then they need protection.. PLEASE keep your baby.. your parrents wont be mad.. they will only be disapointed to see you forced to grow up FAST…

Im fourteen and pregnant. Im keeping my little boy. And I think you should do the same thing. Wether your with the babys father or not. The baby is still half yours. Its your flesh and blood. Just remember that. Im not with my baby daddy either, believe me, youll regret abortion in the long run. It takes courage to raise a baby at a young age, its a selfless act.

Hunny you obviously don’t want this child and within the circumstances I don’t blame you. You seem really mature for your age which is great but at the same time you should know that protection is imperative. Please don’t do have sex without it again. And your boyfriend not using one shows that he has little respect for you.

Abortion is an option and it is really down to personal preference. Adoption is also an option but there are many issues involved eg; the child will go through it’s life not knowing it’s real parents which off course can be very stressful and upsetting. They would feel rejected all of there life. You would also become attached to the baby and having to give it away could be the hardest decision of your life. I’m not pushing abortion but it seems like a option to consider. Funmail me if you want to know anymore. good luck

Okay sweetie. Im gonna be BLUNT with this. Im not trying to offend you or anything…but if you have the guts to have UNPROTECTED SEX with your boyfriend, and you KNEW you werent ready for a baby at FOURTEEN, abortion is OUT OF THE QUESTION. That’s horrible that the baby would have to pay for YOUR MISTAKE. Atleast give the baby a chance to live. If you DONT want it, give it up for adoption and youre allowed to see it…I mean seriously…Maybe ONCE unprotexted…but you did it what? Like THREE times? Thats…not smart at all…

your lucky he’s only 17… he can get in a lot of trouble if he were a little older. and he will get in a lot of trouble when he turns 18 if you continue to have sex.

you need your parent’s support as soon as possible and also to go to a doctor. You have to tell them. And if they don’t approve, they can’t force you to get an abortion or anything like that, but they can force you not to date your boyfriend anymore. Although he will have parental rights to the baby, and he will be allowed to see the baby.

Just to let you know, it’s gonna be tough, but hey, don’t listen to anyone else, your decision is your’s alone, and no one else know’s what you’re going through. These people that say abortion is wrong is right, but sometimes it is the best decision, I would love to see one of them have a baby at fourteen, and not have it cross their mind once. Some advice for the people that believe it is 100 percent wrong, put yourself in their shoes… I am not for it, but imagine having to raise a baby that young; for one thing, the baby would not have all of it’s proper needs, and a fourteen year old (even though they say they do) doesn’t want a baby, or need one. I have seen pregnancies at a young age work out, but most of the time they don’t. In my opinion, I think that it is better to get an abortion than bring a baby in the world, that won’t have every thing it needs, or maybe even get abused.

Think before you judge whitneyrebecca and ihprincess123.