How do I forgive myself? And am I a bad person?

i agree.. what happened?

It doesnt matter what youve done, realize that you are human and everyone makes mistakes. You would never learn life lessons ifyou were perfect and never made mistakes.

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yeah but Ive made the same mistake more than once.

It doesnt matter…your realizing now that your wrong and thats what matter. Only you can change your life, maybe think about whats causing you to continue making this mistake. I was an addict for ten years, i made the same mistake daily, that in no way made me a bad person. I had a problem and i got help and i changed my life around. You can fix whatever you have done if you really try.

in order to learn from your mistakes you gotta look at why your doing it and what could be leading you to that.. it helps to talk about with someone sometimes because they might be able to ask you the right questions that will help you answer the issues for yourself.

Forgiving yourself starts with accepting what you have done and accepting the (possible) consequences attached to your actions. If you actually were a bad person you would not be asking yourself that question, so I guess you’re not. :)

….me either done things in past.cant forget them.but i learned many things by these mistakes.is to go on.i know how ya feelin.you cant feel comfortable.you cant forget what hapened.but ask that question to your self”did you mean what you,ve done?no,you didnt.you just mistaked as we all do.now you can do better than whatever you,done.is to be better than before.forget what hapened,forget it and go on.and the important thing,forgive your self.thanks

No one is bad. Never regret anything in life cos from each mistake you learn something new and tehn you know youll never do it again :)

No one is bad. Never regret anything in life cos from each mistake you learn something new and tehn you know youll never do it again :)

It’s a part of human nature….the hardest person to ever forgive is ourselves. Examine what you feel you’ve done wrong, then ask yourself if you would forgive your best friend if she/he did the same thing….give yourself the same leeway, you would give another.

You probably aren’t bad person, simply because you care if you are or aren’t….a bad person wouldn’t give a rat’s bu*t.

So? ive made the same mistake a million times. No one is a bad person and the fact that your feeling bad shows that you atleast care. So dont be too hard on yourself

you shouldn’t beat yourself up. if you believe in god: no matter what you did can be forgiven with just simply asking for forgiveness “lord, can you please forgive me for…” andddddddd if you dont believe in god, try writing your feelings out (: trust me it helllps. you’ll realize things you wouldn’t be able tto. writing your feelings out is like solving the problem on papper. if you add all the stuff to the equation, you’ll have a better sense on things.

What happended

All of us can’t make excuses for you and what you did and what you feel bad about but you can make a choice to be more conscious of how you live your life. You won’t improve overnight but talk to someone you trust and figure it out.. start trying to figure out why you do what you do instead of feeling guilty about it. Guilt doesn’t solve anything and obviously the guilt isn’t stopping you from doing what you regret. Be more positive and upbeat and make a change for the better.

She said her herself that she’s done it a million times.. do your really think this answer will help her? no attitude intended.. just wondering..