Fistfight, should they hunt down the guy?

Right oka here goes. I got into a fistfight with this dude at the rocks (teenage hangout) he mashed me up pretty bad and my mates said they would hunt him down and …yeahh. I mean they are more than capable but I dunno if they should… Hmmmf

Answer #1

What was the reason for the fight? I would just let it go and forget it. be the bigger person and let it go.

Answer #2

I know you don’t want to but you don’t want to just keep getting beat up with every fight

Answer #3

I mean I know that its wrong to go after him and heartbreakerz1 I know that it will b sinking to his level.. I mean I aint a thug its just the kids I hang around with I guess. Im gona try leave it I guess thanks for the advice guys mite post with an update to anyone who cares!!

Answer #4

Who cares what people say you don’t have to prove yourself to other people. If other people try fighting you tell someone don’t just keep getting in fights

Answer #5

You seem to base your masculinity on your ability to fight and the reactions of your peers. Have enough confidense in yourself to realize that this jerk isn’t important enough to worry about it. Take the physical pain as a lesson in promoting peace. Physical fighting is for ignorant people who don’t know how to use their brains. If you really want to hurt this guy, attack his ego. If you are smart, you will realize that retaliation will only hurt YOU more in the long run.

Answer #6

Hmf got no one to tell part from the fuz but don’t rli wana do that you know what I mean

Answer #7

I compleatly understand you!! - trust me I do… I’m a girl, but I’ve been through a several b!tch fights…and none of them were pretty… it took me a while to realize that if I were never to let my pride go - I was always chased after!! I’m not really the fighter type nor am I the kinda girl to start a scene, it was practically cause I was hanging around the wrong people… and I’d always get draged in or draged in to back them up!! as for my boyfriend… man… he’s gotten into a several fist fights when he gets mad, but now since he’s with me… I guess he’s learned to make peace - plus he’s gotten into sh!t with getting suspended and stuff… so he’s gone through it all from hell and all the way back!!!

my question for you now, is do you really want to risk the idea of getting revange? - there’s a lot of consequences you can get yourself into!! think before you act… I’m sure you’ll make the right choice =)

Answer #8

Depends…what was it over? Was it a good reason? Maybe you should let it go. Maybe you should do it. I’d say let it go because you will be the better person If you fight him back ull just sink down to his level

-Tiana [add me]

Answer #9

I suppose but it aint that simple because if I let it go then I get people saying im a pu**sy and trying to fight me ya see? I would like to leave it but if I do then I mite be in more trouble…

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