If you dont bleed does that mean you've already had sex?

first time sex.. I am getting married and I am a virgin and so is my fiance. I have masterbated and am worried that I’ve stretched my hymen to limit to the point where I want bleed on my wedding night. I do not want him to think I’ve lied to him. so my question is if you dont bleed does that basically mean uve already had sex?? pls help

Answer #1

There is absolutely no way to tell if a girl (or a guy) has masturbated in the past. I’m guessing that you are fairly young if there is this much uncertainty. Maybe you might think about waiting a while longer to get married.

Answer #2

No most of the time the hymen breaks before having sex and it depends some women bleed and others don’t so as long as you know you haven’t had sex your good you said you’ve masturbated before if you inserted something in you then that might have broken it.

Answer #3

Hymens can wear thin and break at an early age, long before sex, most commonly from excessive exercise or sports. Even if it’s not broken they don’t always bleed when they are. Don’t worry, I bet your hubby-to-be will be too excited about the activities to worry about hymens.

Answer #4

Definitly not - not all women bleed their first time having sex because their hymen was broken by something else (rough sports, tampon, etc.)

Answer #5

but I havnt inserted anything. and he doesnt know that I masterbated in the past is there anyway he can tell?

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