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Is this a good plan for a first date?

Hello, I’m 15 and the girl I like is 14-1/2 (almost the same age). She told my friend last time that she had a crush on me, (my friend is her friend too). I asked her what she was doing Sunday and she said nothing, she said that we should do something. I will invite her to the cinema watch a normal movie. (But not to action in it, or horror). We will probably walk there (she doesn’t live far.) When we will be in the cinema its gona be dark, probably at half the movie, I will look her in the eyes and make the move (kiss her)… Is this a good idea or anyone have a proposition to make? Please tell me?(any idea an other way to tell her I love her and I want to go out with her) PS: we’ve met 2 times already once at my friends party and once she came to see my soccer game and after we made a fire with 2 of my friends (that night she told that she had a crush on me).??? Thanks for all future comments Kevin

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Answer #1

I don’t mean to put you down but at your age you can’t honestly know what it means to love someone. Although she told you she has a crush on you it just simply means that she like you. Before you think of dating her youmust search your heart to see if you like her.

Answer #2

Ok, first off, you do not love this girl. That is a very strong word to use for someone you barely even know. Love takes time to grow, so what you feel is a crush!

!f you dont wanna scare her away, just tell her you like her. If i went on a date to the movies, i dont think i would want a guy taking advantage of a dark theatre to make a move on me. I would rather have him wait until the end of the night when the date is over, and then maybe a little kiss!

Call me old fashion, but then at least i would know he respects me!

Answer #3

Remember to be yourself. Thats the whole reason she’s out with you, because she likes YOU. After the movie walk her home (If it’s not too far or not too cold) and then try to make a move… but only if you feel a connection.

Be sure to remember that if you do end up going steady with her, don’t pressure her into doing things she doesn’t want to (s*ex namely). Just take it at a reasonable pace and everything should work out, it usually does.

Answer #4

try and get to know her then see how it gose

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