How to make sure my first time isn't painful?

what your friend said was just stupid..using a tampon is not loosing your v card…and it wont make your 1st time any less painful a guys pen*s is much bigger then a tampon and your finger so there is no way to get around and next time dont take advice from your friend shes not to bright…

ok, so I no it wont be wonderful your first time getting fingured so here are a few tips first I would try to do it your self make sure your wet first and start out with one finger and then go to two then three and it will be a bit akward so just try to daydream about your boyfriend or your crush and even then that is no comparison to how bad it will hurt when you acctually have sex… and by the way losing your virginity to a tampon is impossuble acctually if you read the back of the box it will explain it.

hope this helps!<3

Heyy, I thought that I was going to loose my virginity too. But now im 12 and have been using them for almost a year it hurt the first few times putting it in but now it just goes in perfectly. But when I take it out it sorta hurts. But I recommend using what I use tampax pearl lite. It is really small and wont hurt as much as the big ones. And I have never gotten fingered or fingered my self!

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Heyy, I thought that I was going to loose my virginity too. But now im 12 and have been using them for almost a year it hurt the first few times putting it in but now it just goes in perfectly. But when I take it out it sorta hurts. But I recommend using what I use tampax pearl lite. It is really small and wont hurt as much as the big ones. And I have never gotten fingered or fingered my self!

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It’s the truth, it will hurt pretty badly the first time you are fingered if you have never had it done before. I suggest doing it yourself, otherwise it will hurt so much more when a guy does it for the first time. The only way you are going to loose your virginity is you have sex. I have never heard of loosing your virginity to a tampon…? It may bleed a little when you use one for the first time but that doesn’t mean your cherry has been popped.

ok use a tampon if you wish your not going to loose your virginity to it, ok? and it going to be fine when ever you have sex none of that sh!t that she sadi was true btu how did you go from oral to fingering?