Should I let this guy finger me?

this guy I know that I really like and he likes me wants to finger me but im kinda scared that its going to hurt. and he will probably want something in return and I dont know how to do that. I want to do it but I dont know how to do that stuff its not that he wants to use me cause we are actually really close and have known eachother for a long time.

Answer #1

Didnt your parents teach you self respect? Do you honestly believe that a boy likes you because he wants to finger you? That is so sad that you would even consider letting him just because you like him. He doesnt like you. He only wants to use you. Cant you see that? Are you in a commited relationship with him? If not, then dont go around making yourself available to every boy who wants you! Just because you like someone doesnt mean you have to get physical with them. This boy is seeing you as an OBJECT, not as a PERSON! Is that how you want every boy to see you, as just some easy girl they can have their way with? If you want boys to respect you, you better start respecting yourself…especially your body! Do you know what it means, and how that feels to be used? Its not a good feeling. Being easy will not get a boy to like you or make him commit to you! Stay away from boys who just want you sexually! They only want one thing, then they will get rid of you as fast as they got you! After your done with him, other boys will want you for the same reason. You will not have a good reputation around your school.

Answer #2

With all do respect Angel,you blew what she said completly out of porportion, and for you Blahgirl, talk to him about it and if you like him back decide from there, fingering wont hurt if he goes slow and not to deep if its your first time.

Answer #3

^I didnt blow anything out of proportion^. It is so sad to see that girls are willing to do ANYTHING to please a boy. It is just some boy who likes her. Its not even her boyfriend, and you see nothing wrong with that? Hes begging to finger her, then wants the favor returned…exactly what part of that says he LIKES her? He is a disrespectful jerk. If this boy truly liked her, he would treat her like a princess, not as a sex toy!

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