What if I was forced to do sex stuff with my ex?

He violated you. Suggar coat it by saying it was only fingering but it was a form of rape if you told him “ N O “ He could get in a lot of trouble because of it. You have to decide what you will do about it. I think most of us here would tell you to talk to your mom about it.
Good luck Gino

ok dont worry about it hunni! people wont think your a slut if you only tell your really close mates who you trust fully and if you explain that you didn’t want it or anything. anyway getting fingered really isnt that bigger a deal! how old are you? and dont worry im sure your parents wont find out! and if they do just explain you tried to stop him and you didn’t want it or anything x

Forgot to add to my first message I just sent few mins ago… I felt that it is necessary to file charge against the ex if it is actually forced action alike I said I had threatened him w/ case that I was thinking abt file charge against that bastard ex for force plus didn’t respect my boyfriend’s words after my bf warned the ex NOT EVER TOUCH MY WOMAN! Sadly that this ex has no respect for him especially me! Cuz of the way I’m being so great lady that my bf loves all about me!!!

I cant believe what evilpinkpunkfairy just said! YES, it IS a big deal to get fingered…when it is being forced!! You really need to tell your parents what he did to you. What he did was bad enough without your consent. What would you have done if he raped you? Tell someone you trust, and stay away from your ex!

thanks but im only 13 and he was only 14, so its not like we can go to court and have a huge trial over something so little.

no big deal..u should have enjoyed it..it is supposed to feel good but w/e