Finding "substance" in Moms purse

Mandyloo is wrong

the reason you snooped was because yu care about your mom…you had everyright to

U HaD EvRy RiTe 2oo Be SuSpIcIouS Bt Nt LooK in Her PuRse… & MaYb ShE dOeS bUY iT 4UR bro…?

Honestly, you had no right to be snooping around in your mother’s purse in the first place.

You can talk to her about what you found and how it makes you feel, but be prepared for her to be mad when she finds out that you were snooping. Your mother is a grown woman and what she decides to do with her body and her life are her choices. You can tell her how you feel about it - but ultimatly it’s her body that she is putting pot into and you have no right to tell her not to.

Your 17 years old, your almost an adult and will he out the house soon. You have said before that you Mom is a wonderful person, so why dwell on this. She raised her kids and was a great mom - so now she wants to do what she wants. I say just ignore it and move on.

*sneakykaykay

Its not for my brother, Its FROM my brother. Haha how messed up, my brother and his wife give my mom pot. Kinda funny actually.

I wonder if my sister knows. (shes like two years younger than my brother. (shes 32) Maybe I should tell her. She doesnt do it though and I honestly dont think she knows that my Mom does it, but she knows about our brother doing it.

I know, but what about the times when she snoops around on me and my dad? She takes the keys to his shop when hes sleeping to go snoop in his shop. Sometimes she even asks me to go out there. Yeah, I’m not perfect, I’ve taken the keys myself when shes sleeping, and he’s at work and I go get some beer out of his fridge and drink away! The first time I found the pot and pipe, I took it and was gonna smoke it because I thought since my Mom did, WHY CANT I? But I decided not to. Who knows, its still down there, maybe I will go down there and take it now! Me and my friend could have some fun for once. And then she’ll be like “oh no where is it?!” “Honey, your brother…” UM NO, NOT MY BROTHER. I dont like the fact that she lied to me 3 times about it already and truth be known she would do it again. Then when I lie to her about skipping school a day she gets so pissed and says stuff like, “WHY? Why do you lie to me like that?” And makes me feel sooo guilty. Well, why does she have to lie tome like THAT? I dont think its fair.

WOW MANDYLOO I THINK YOU ARE JUST WRONG!!!

Funadvice…if you “snooped” it was because you cared…I would have done the same thing…and I defifinetly care what my mom consumes, WHY do I care because she is MY mom… and you should be scare of talking to her, im pretty sure she WONT get mad. and you HAVE ALL THE RIGHT TO TELL HER WHAT YOU FEEL… IF YOU FEEL LIKE SHE SHOULDNT BE DOING THAT WELL GO AHEAD LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. and just because your an adult that doesnt mean you are going to be out of the house anytime soon…im almost 20 and im still with my mom…im not a bum I actually have 2 jobs and I help with the bills and go to school anyways… and because your mom is a wonderful person that is why you should tell her and your bond will become stronger… trust…me

She is a grown woman - not a child. He had NO right to snoop in her purse. I’m sorry. She is parent and he is the chid.

I already said he can tell her how he feels - that does not mean that she has to stop though. Like I said, he’s almost an adult and as he said, she’s a wonderful mom. What she does in her spare time - is none of his business.

TALK TO HER.. that’s all you can do. You have to understand though, that she will probley be mad because you snooped and also she is a GROWN woman and you can’t force her to stop.

Yeah its me here2help just so you know. I guess it doesnt matter if everyone on the entire site knows.