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How can I find a girl who understands my background?

I have been searching for a real girfriend that can understand how to relate to a guy that grew up in Chicago Ill, and in a family that was organized to commit criminal acts for profit, by whatever means. Now that all is past and most of the family is dead, I went to prison, and got out now been 7 years. I still have not found a girl that can relate to my sitution, but I want to do the right thing. I have a job, car, and house. But I also have an extensive criminal record, I take my word seriously, so I can not lie or deceive people ot women that are close to me. So what do I do ? Do I tell all my dates? do not tell, and she goes and gets a fricken “backgroung check” and then bam I am indicted again all over, just as the job interview. I new a new country! danny dono

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Answer #1

what were you emprisoned for? I think you defintely cant tell your first date that or you’d freak them out totally. its better if you get to know the girl really well…and once she trusts you..try telling her bit by bit…but only once you think it’s the right time.

Answer #2

Well, don’t tell your whole history on the first date.

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