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Filthy cheating Mrs.

MY girlfriend of 3 years is cheating on me, I found out after she went back home for a couple of weeks and came back and gave me the clap. Should I try and patch things up with her, or throw her but out on the kerb?

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Answer #1

Omg…well you obviously have had a long relationship and invested time/energy/money/emotions/feelings/love etc…its not easy to let go but when your significant other disrespects you in such a way, then its up to you to decide whether or not shes worth it. I mean, why did she cheat? Obviously your relationship has some problems or issues where she doesnt feel happy or loved or excited anymore. And maybe you dont either? I feel that when one person leaves a relationship and goes outside of it to find intimacy or whatever is missing, then its over. you should talk to each other over a coffee or something and really explore where your relationship is going or headed. If its meant to be over …its ok. Dont waste time. Ok but on another note…I would definately end it. She has no compassion and is running around without protection…thats just nasty! and you know it. Hope something I said helps !

Answer #2

I mean it’s one thing to be cheating, but cheating without protection? She obviously doesnt care about her health or yours, be thankful it wasnt something worse, get tested just incase, and move on…

Answer #3

3 years isnt a lifetime. You have a lot of time to find Mrs. Right. NEVER give a cheater a second chance. Its letting them know that they can cheat, because you will be there waiting to take them back…and it can take a very long time and a lot of work to restore the trust and love that is lost when this happens in a relationship.

Healthy relationships needs theses 7 qualities:

  1. Mutual respect
  2. Trust
  3. Honesty
  4. Support
  5. Fairness/equality
  6. Separate identities
  7. Good communication
Answer #4

kerb. no doubt.

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