Fifteen and pregnant! Help me please?

I kind of wanted to tell my parents first. Any way to do that?

Of course, I think that’s a good idea. Just tell them straight up and ask them for help with everything. Just make sure you also tell your boyfriend.

Never say you didn’t realize what you were doing. You did, you both did. I realize this is scary right now, a child having a child. You need to tell your parents, you are underage right now and depending on where you are, any options you DO have, you need your parent’s consent. You need to talk to your boyfriend as well, he needs to know what his actions have resulted in. However, do not let him influence you in whether or not YOU want to keep the baby. As for your question about what people think about abo.rtion. I, personally, am pro-life except in extenuating circumstances. I see a fetus as human as any adult just in a different stage in their life, and I see it as wrong to not allow it to have a chance at life because of their parents. Though, I am not one to condemn those who are for it. But what I think has no matter on your own situation.That really depends on your own moral and thought on the subject and asking someone else wont help you. Take time to reflect on the subject and remember that this is one that has no turning back. As for whether or not you are too late to have an abortion you need to search up the legal laws in your area, everywhere is different.

Never say you didn’t realize what you were doing. You did, you both did. I realize this is scary right now, a child having a child. You need to tell your parents, you are underage right now and depending on where you are, any options you DO have, you need your parent’s consent. You need to talk to your boyfriend as well, he needs to know what his actions have resulted in. However, do not let him influence you in whether or not YOU want to keep the baby. As for your question about what people think about abo.rtion. I, personally, am pro-life except in extenuating circumstances. I see a fetus as human as any adult just in a different stage in their life, and I see it as wrong to not allow it to have a chance at life because of their parents. Though, I am not one to condemn those who are for it. But what I think has no matter on your own situation.That really depends on your own moral and thought on the subject and asking someone else wont help you. Take time to reflect on the subject and remember that this is one that has no turning back. And whether or not it is too late to get an abo.rtion depends on where you live, you need to search up the legal laws where you are, but again, think hard on your decision.

Vivi, I am really sorry that you are in this fix.

First, right now, call Planned Parenthood in your city or state and ask them about your age and the question of how far along you are. DO NOT FUDGE either answer. (You don’t have to give your name right away.) That will answer two of your questions. And will not judge you (I volunteer at a local clinic and they are very supportive.)

Regardless of what the answers are and what you decide to do, I do recommend telling your parents. Start with your Mom, as a woman she will probably be more supportive and can help you tell your Dad. Remember that your folks love you very, very much. If you can’t tell them yourself, try to enlist the help of a relative (an aunt or older cousin) to help you tell them.

You should let your boyfriend know, not because he has a right to decide, but because he has a legal obligation toward the child if you go to term, and - in my opinion - an obligation to support you through what ever your decision is, and to pay, or help pay if you ab0rt. He might even be supportive of you and your choices. (This is REALLY an acid test of what kind of person he is!)

I really, really hope that you come through this alright and are shown the love and support that parents should always have for their children.

Take care of yourself, and Good Luck!!

If your area doesn’t have a Planned Parenthood to call, you can go to

www( dot )plannedparenthood( dot )org and enter your zip code. Good Luck!!