Cuz I feel a conflicting feeling of pity and amusement in there suffering ..
I can't say I feel bad because I don't know the situation or them, however I do feel that it was unfortunate it happened to them. Though most girls I know who were teen moms would yell at you if they found out you took pity on them. In this neighborhood teen mom syndrome (what the neighborhood calls it) runs rampant. Parents are like just hiting 30's and their kids are my age. I have no room to talk my mom was a teen mom and did well for the most part with what she had. She too was a child of a teen mom so I have not experienced too much pity in this area its more like stfu don't open your legs next time.... and yes that is how harsh they are around here.
Absolutely not. When you have sex at ANY AGE, you should be ready to face the consequences & Take responsibility for your actions. My sister got pregnant at 14, had her baby at 15, and is currently 16. She act's like everyone should go out of there way to feel bad for her. She's always talking about how "She hate's her life." Blah, blah. Look who's fault that is? Not mine. I have no reason to feel bad for her. It really pisses me off when people make "Wrong" decsisions and expect you to feel bad for them. I love my nephew, she loves him but she really needs to grow up and cut the crap, & so does every other teen mom that hasn't already. Nuff said. ♥
i kinda do. cuz their lives are over. they wont be able to hang out late at night, or really be able to buy them selves anything, cuz their money has to go to the babys needs. and they are just kids themselves, and half the time they don't know proper care for them. I know a 13 year old, who had a new born, and its 2 years old, and never had a crib. it sleeped in a car seat, even to this day
I'm not sure if I feel bad for the girls who are pregnant, but I do feel bad for the child that will be brought into the world. Girls who enter motherhood at 12-15 often aren't ready to do what needs to be done in order to give the child the best life possible. In a lot of cases children tend to suffer in these situations, which I don't think is really fair for them.
Nope not at all. I feel no sympathy at all for them, nor do I feel bad. If a child feels they are mature enough to have sex, then they should know it comes with consequences. Of course, obviously most at those ages AREN'T mature enough for sex, but in the end, it was their choice. So no, I won't sympathize for them, I sympathize for the child.
I would never feel amusement, thats just cruel. I feel bad for them because they have no idea what they're in for. Having a child at any age is tough, having a child while being a child yourself would be hell. They wont get to be children EVER, they will have to grow up the second the child is born and it's really sad.
I feel bad but also not. I mean you don't know the story behind what happened. For all you know she could have been raped and there you are thinking about how much of a s1ut she is...but if you know she had sex with consent I would feel no pity for them...
Well you shouldn't feel amusement in their suffering? That's just ignorant, but I don't feel bad because they put themselves in that situation and they're just going to have to grow up, face reality and accept their responsibilities.
Well the hell if it's funny, but you know...when they step up to the plate and hit a home run...they better be ready for that circle of movement.... Of course, unless they were se xually forced into it then I'd feel bad for them.
No because i think its their fault for having sex and getting pregnate in the first place, but i do feel sorry for the baby if the teen parents are not very responsible.
I don't feel bad when I see a young girl pregnant, but I do think often that could be me if I'm not careful. So, in other words I think of them as a warning sign.
Wow. And how much suffering, humiliation and responsibility does the teen dad have to go through? You know, the one who was 50% responsible for her condition?
I know a few teen moms that were extremely hormonal when pregnant but when the baby came along they grew up and took responsibility even if the father didn't.
I feel bad for the baby, also it depends on how old the mother is. I would feel bad for a 12 year old. A 16 year old should know better.
I don't really care. Not my business, not my problem. I have no right to feel anything about her unless I know her.
My sister takes care of her baby for the most part, and so does the father. I'm just sick of her complaining.
No not really cause its their fault they are the ones that had sex before they were ready!!!!!!!!!!
Oh wow!! Well I wouldnt, but than again this sort of situation would never happen to me
If I was a teen dad, I would too. o.O
the teen dad just runs away and hides
yeah i know what u mean
exactly!!!!!!!!!!!