How can I feel more confident with my big butt and thighs in shorts?

I adore girls with larger butts and legs and most men do. Just look at it like this, this is the way you are. If you are unhappy, then you can change how you look with excercise. Its up to you on how you look. I have a 32 inch waist and my butt measures 40 1/2 inches. If you dont want your butt to appear so big, wear shorts with large pockets, it gives the illusion your butt is smaller. Just know that there are plenty of people out there far worse than you darling.

ok, is it possible that you are so self conscience bcz when you look in the mirror you dont see perfection? Is it possible that someone once called you the F word…I mean (fat) and it has stuck with you so much so it has shattered your self esteem with is why you find yourself less then perfect?

You need to stop that negative thinking & just love what you see in the mirror, ur unique, special & beautiful inside & out. Now when you look at yourself in the mirror, keep repeating these words: “I am beautiful inside & out! No matter what anyone says I am beautiful!” That will be your H.W. til you need to meet up with them. Close ur eyes 2 mins before you meet them all & remind yourself of those words…that is all the self confidence you will ever need!

Now if you really want to make a change & fee that it really bothers you, decide to change it…after that night, plan a way to get in 45 mins of workouts a day every day. Start slow pace at first then gradually add another 5 mins, til you get 45 mins. combine that will healthier choices…watch ur intake & drink plenty of water. By changing jut a few things in your daily routine, you will begin witnessing changes.

Good luck my dear. Hv fun tomorrow

Okay I am gonna tell you right now, most guys and a few girls like larger butts. I know I do :). Anyway, what I would recommend is if you feel that people are going to have a different opinion if you this time wearing shorts then wear something else you feel comfortable in. But if the shorts are all you can wear don’t feel like you are out of your comfort zone, just go out there and remember the compliments you got last you wore the shorts.

I never thought I’d say this but.. Thank god for JLO. She is a girl with alot of junk in her trunk. And instead of starving herself or any other type of fad diet, she just rocked what she had. No one is pretty without self confidence. Where shorts in a length that your comfortable with, and rock out. I’m sure you’ll look awesome. Besides, women with curvy bodies are much more attractive.