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Ok so I liked this boy since last year and I don't know if its a good idea to let him know how I feel about him.when I first saw him I thought he was really cute. He's so nice and sweet, he makes me laugh but this was last year & when we were with all our friends everyone would walk with a pair & we would usually walk together but we hardly talked becuase im shy and i dont know what the hell to say. i freak out im such a dumbass around him i do the stupidest things.he would compliment me on my nails all the time and he would open the door for me ALL the time there was never a day where he wouldn't. And he would randomly poke me. He would make jokes & look at me to check if i was laughing I think my friend knew I liked him so she would make it so awkward and when we were alone it would be weird awkward silence he's a very shy dude. So we had one class together & I would catch him staring at me and he would look over most of the time to see what I was doing. & one day I left to Mexico for a week & when I came back I wanted to look my best so i dressed nice i did my nails cuz heard he liked zombies so the next day he complimented me on my nails & I was like yess! Success! Haha so then he said "I bet she gets it from the Internet" &obviously yea I get the nail designs from the Internet I get mad yea I know it's stupid but he was joking so I laughed like it didn't bother me & I wish I never got mad so then when we were going inside he opened the door for me& my friend opened the door also so I go through her door &he gets mad & he says "wow I just opened the door for my self" so I laugh. The next day I get over it & I thought he would open my door but he didn't I felt stupid he slammed it in my face & after that he would be so serious & he would stop complimenting me I think he hated me and I think his friend hated me too.we were like enemies but when we were w/the group of friends it would be fake. after a while he didn't hate me anymore we were more like strangers.Flash forward to this year I don't have a class with him I only see him in the mornings and at lunch all our friends are gone. Some moved and some arnt friends with us anymore so we dont talk. i miss him & on facebook hes always talking about finding a girl & i always hope to be that girl. hes been with other girls but those girls are stupid they break up with him for the same reason becuase "hes too nice" which i think is fucken dumb. So here's the problem this year I finally told my best friend I liked him she freaked out because of the same reason why I never told her which was because he's my ex boyfriends brother is that a bad thing?what should I do?!Should I tell him I like him?
I think u should tell him before it's to late! That happened to me, friends and hes a nice guy, and then a new girl came and they have been together ever since! Tell him, don't end up wondering what if, even if he does reject u, at least u know you tried! Good luck, I hope u don't end up like me! Tell him face to face, not through Facebook!
One day we are here and the next, we might be gone so- do tell! I think he's been trying to show you that he's into you all along and somehow hasn't been getting the 'okay' from you. Don't think about it too much, just tell him and get it over with! Good luck and keep us updated please :))
I agree wholeheartedly with that excellent advice.
