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Faminly Hates Him... Romeo And Juliet Relived.

Ok, thanks for the advice on the pregnant thing… now something ELSE has come up. My entire family, hates him. They call him trash, junk, a leech, and all sorts of terrible names. I LOVE him… we talked the pregnancy thing over, and he was estatic that I changed my mind, and wanted to wait. But now… with my family the way it is, I want to leave, but I’m afraid to! I want to marry this guy, and… my mom flatly said no. Like it was HER choice… She said in her mind, my relationship with him is over… Is there anyway I can get her to stop being so… pardon, bitchy?! The rest of them just follow her and my dad…

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Answer #1

If your mom can tell you the things she has, you are definetly not ready to get married. Plus, your young and there are so many people in this world. Do you actually think that you will spend the rest of your life with this guy? Don’t ruin your relationship with your family for a boyfriend. I know how you feel, you love him/care for him and so on.. but I have been on the same position and put my feelings for him before my families and I ended up hurting my relationship with my family and ended up single and heart broken. But then again you can’t tell someone anything and expect them to listen to it. Because you have to learn and experience it yourself. Good Luck!

Answer #2

Do you really think your parents will tell you anything that’s going to hurt you?! Do you believe that when they say what they say its not for your best interest?! Of course not, they love you. I’m not telling you should break up with your boyfriend, but take a step back and observe him for a while….why do your parents think what they think. Maybe they see things that you can’t…..and vice versa, maybe you see things that they can’t. If you really Love this guy, then talk to your parents about why they feel this way. AND PLEASE, Don’t choose a BOYfriend over the person that gave you LIFE.

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