How can I get my family to stop bothering me

Are they bugging you about YOU buying stuff online? Or are they bugging you, asking you to buy something online for them? Big difference between the two. If it’s the first mentioned, in one way they have a right to bug you about how you spend your money. You still live at home, so I’m guessing you’re probably in your teens. Parents (good parents) tend to be cautious and protective, it’s not a bad thing, although it can seem overbearing as a teen. Believe me, I’ve been there. But they’re just trying to watch out for you and help you become a responsible adult one day.

Now, if it’s the second, and they want you to spend your money on stuff for them, they don’t have much right to do that. If it’s money you’ve earned and your parents want it for themselves, you have every right to tell them no.

Age makes a difference in this case though. If you’re not legally able to take it to the law, you’ll have to turn to stashing your money in places only you can get to. If you -are- able to involve the law, tell your parents it’s YOUR money, not theirs, and they need to use their own to buy stuff with. If they continue, maybe you should drop the hint that stealing is against the law?

I’m not super clear on the issue though, so I may be leading you in a completely wrong direction.