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I used to smoke weed nearly everyday this past semester and I've been smoking cigs for nearly two years... I'm 20, 6'3", 180lbs (you'll need this info later, lol). I still plan on smoking weed every once and a while cause I enjoy it, but I'm planning on quitting cigs. I never really exercised a lot in my life and I'm relatively skinny. It's in the past 6 months or so that I realized that I'm starting to get a little pudge-thing going on in my abdomin and my pecs are very slowly becoming more and more fat and less muscle. I also lack stamina to the utmost (can't even climb a flight of stairs without getting winded). Every once and a while I would start exercising for a couple days and then just stop... not sure why (lack of motivation perhaps?)

So why the sudden change? Well, the day after christmas my parents found out I smoked pot and it completely ruined my new year and the rest of my winter vacation. Everything was put into rhetrospect and I became depressed and realized that I wasn't happy with the life I was living, or rather, myself. So I decided to join a gym. I haven't actually joined yet because I have to see if I can manage financially and with my college classes and all. I have a one day trial at Gold's Gym which I have yet to use. And I've been planning on using it, but it just so happens that I've had a horrible cold these past couple days and couldn't go cause who the hell can exercise when they can't breath right; not to mention I'm a smoker who's trying to quit...

I think a gym would be good for me because if I'm in an atmosphere where I see others working real hard then I will be motivated to work hard as well... I think that's what I'm lacking when I try excercising at home (it just feels weird). I also think that it'll help me look good for summer if I excercise from now until then. It's also an added incentive to keep my nipple piercing because who thinks that piercings on saggy t!ts looks good??? lol

You're probably wondering where the quesiton is in all this... well I'm not really asking a specific question. I basically gave a relatively short synopsis of some of the more recent stuff that's happened to me and what I plan on doing. Now, what I can use is advice on eating healthy and any motivating techniques to have me keep at this whole exercise routine I plan to have very soon. As well as techniques for quitting cigs, cause I've tried before and after a week I had the worst headache ever and had to continue smoking. Also any suggestions on what to eat and how I should be exercising as well as how often you think I should be excercising... Like I mentioned in my title (which will probably be changed because that seems to be what this site does) this is all new to me. I dunno how to exercise right, nor do I know terms or what my cholestoral level should be or what to look for in foods that deem it healthy and beneficial to eat... I feel like I'm ending one life and about to start a new one where I have to learn everything all over.

I'm going to stop talking now cause I feel I'm going on and on. Any questions or if you need me to clarify anything, don't hesitate to ask (as you can tell, I'm quite open... as long as none of you are judging pr!cks or give pointless no brainer advice such as, "eat healthy, stop smoking and exercise daily"). Thanks! : )