Ex Boyfriend Issues...is he using me?

Hes using you, because you allow him too. Hes an ex for a reason! Hes playing on your vulnerabiltiy, and will keep taking advantage of you until you wake up, and realize that he does NOT like/care about you anymore. Hes only making a fool out of you!

We’ve already had sex, but we’re not together.

He blew me off last night and said I was being annoying when I felt uncomfortable about flashing him.

^^Those are HUGE red flags that he doesnt give a darn about you, and clearly has NO respect for you. NEVER have sex with someone your not in a commited relationship with, ESPECIALLY an ex! Sex doesnt save a relationship, doesnt keep one together, and it sure as heck doesnt bring one back together!

In your heart you probably somehow feel that by continuing to have sex with your ex that he is going to magically somehow realize what he hasnt realized throughout the entire time you were in a committed relationship, and that he will somehow fall madly in love with you and come running back to you with his heart in his hands vowing their eternal love to you, but the REALITY is that the chances of this happening are pretty darn slim. He for whatever reason didnt feel obligated to stay committed to you while you were in the relationship so its very unlikely that he is going to all of a sudden feel an overwhelming need to committ to you especially now that the relationnship is over and he is free from the responsibility of having to act in a manner towards you that would show that he values, loves, appreciates and respects you. What incentive does he have to do this now when he can get all the perks of being in a relationship without having to have the restrictions.

Ex’s serve NO purpose in our lives except to confuse us, and /or cause drama. You need to cut ALL ties with him, otherwise you’ll keep opening up old wounds over & over, and possibly be scarred for life.