Ex-boyfriend

When I ignore my ex-and he comes back like a dog, how should I treat him from playing me dirty and leaving after 12 years?

Answer #1

OK relax! 12 years is a long time to be with someone so it doesnt sound like its a teen immature relationship although……..it sounds like exactly that! how old are the 2 of you? you are acting like a bunch of jealous teenagers. Im sorry he decided to up and go on you, that must really have hurt you, but he is starting all this immature crap that you are going along with and allowing! fine, he is seeing someone..accept it. Its great to hear that you lost weight and getting yourself together, dont go along with his immaturity or you will stoop down to his level. Be the stronger one, DO NOT SPEAK TO HIM! if he keeps calling, change your number or simply ignore him, either give him his dog and truck so he has no reason to come around, or if you cant when he does come around dont speak to him, do the small talk and be strong, stand up to him and let him no you arnt playing immature games with him, let him go to strip clubs, im sure he’ll find a great catch in there!!! lol you seriously need to move on from this prick and start going out and having fun, dont hang on for him to come back he isnt worth it.

Answer #2

Hes obviousy not worth the poo on your shoe. I know its hard but you dont deserve t be treat like that. Tell him where to go. No second chances. x

Answer #3

I would make sure first that he is for real.. Don’t jump right back into things (even though you have been together for 12 years).. Take things extremely slow, and don’t sleep with him right away.. You want to make sure that he is not still playing his games. And I would not get back together within like a week or 2 either… Have patience ok.. I know it is hard…Is this the first time you have split up in 12 years? I wish you the best of luck!!

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