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Empty without him

I love my boyfriend so so so so so so so so much And whenever we get into fights or he’s being an asswhole I can’t handle it I don’t go out with friends, I just want to stay home and do nothing and cry I can’t bare to do anything He’s my everything and I wish he wasn’t so badly I dont’ want it to be like this, but I don’t know how to stop it from being like this I think if we broke up, every single aspect of my life would go downhill I’d start fighting with my mom, I’d stop seeing friends, I’d stop being myself I feel like he allows me to stay happy and stay myself And I don’t know what I’m going to do because he’s going to school across the world, and we’re going ot break up in two weeks And I’m going to be absolutely devastated, I won’t know what to do with myself. Does anyone have any advice for me? How can I stay happy and be myself without him when all I want to do when he’s not here is die?

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Answer #1

I know how you feel I went through a hard break up too it will take time for your heart to heal but it will. You cant let this wreck your life in any way. The guy I went out with was the same way when we fought and I would get so upset and wouldn’t want to do anything or talk to anyone. You have to realize that you will be better off you can enjoy time with your family and friends there are other guys out there that will treat you a lot better it will take time it’s not just going to happen but just stick through it and it will all turn out okay in the end.

Answer #2

im sorry girl, I went through the same thing, you have to think on the brighter side. talk to him tell him how it makes you feel, let him know that the arguments are hurting the relationship and all you want is to give each other love not anger. I did that with my boyfriend and we are doing perfectly fine. we are engaged now and im completely in love with him! hope everything works out! GOODLUCK!

Answer #3

I know how that feels. I know you feel like you cant move on without that person, but you can. It just takes effort and time. I went through a horrible breakup and I didn’t leave my house for like 2 weeks but eventually I got up and said “I’m not going to let this control my life” and eventually moved on. You cant expect everything to be okay, because you only get better one step at a time. You don’t need someone like that in your life, there’s a better opportunity out there for you. You just need to have hope in yourself and don’t let anyone walk all over you.

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