Lose erection when I put the condom on

alright here is the deal… this is really the 1st time I am in a relationship and I never had sex before… for some reason when I put the condom on I cant stay hard… we have fooled around and everything im good with everything else its just when I put the condom on I really dont know what it is but its really embarrassing… I know I can do it without a condom but I dont want to take that risk…any ideas?

Answer #1

ask her to give you a handjob or do something to you right before putting it on my boyfriend had this problem wheh first did it…he was a little nervous!!!

Answer #2

perhaps this problem is not the condom but what the condom represents youre still a virgin the condom represents you loosing that…maYBE ure not ready for sex…or maybe you dont want your first time to be with this girl and your subconcious is creating a good reason not to do it.think about it …and if it turns out you are ready and its just it feeling odd try masterbatin with it so you can get the feeling of it on.but please do not have sex with out it.

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