Should I dump my girlfriend for someone older?

If there’s no spark between the relationship, you feel that your maturity levels don’t match and you just can’t accept it - then yes, break up with her. If a relationship isn’t for you, talk to her and come to good terms. No use in making something work when you know it’s not working,

lol iI havent actually found this mature girl im just speaking In advice and my gfs 16 shes just childish grrrr

funny… you are also 16 maybe she feels the same too urggh.

If you think she’s to childish let her know about it, She’s only 16. But if you dump her and you cant find another girl then your out of luck, I would stick with her and hope she change’s you just need to have a chat with her

Childish girls can be sooooo cute.

not wen ur datin them

If you don’t see it working out then yes. There’s no point pursuing a relationship with someone you just don’ want to be with anymore.

well i won’t say hey dump your gf just to find an older girl as advice. but i will state that in conclusion to reading your comments “she childish” and you just seem generally annoyed with her. it maybe a sign the lust is over and its time to move on. your 16 experience being 16 and meeting new girls, who knows somewhere along the line you will run into the girl for you =) My bf and i met at a random concert and looking back who would have known we’d be together 4 years and still happy.

       best of luck=),
       KIrsten

depends whether your happy with the girl you with now but if your not then dont mess her about and dont go in a relationship with the older girl straight away because she would feel like rubbish and that she isnt good enough and you have too remember that if shes like too old she might finish you for an older guy so its a tough choice :/

maturity doesn’t come with age but with experience… it is not guaranteed that elder one will be matured enough…

If you have to think about dumping your girlfriend? Then yes do it. But no older girl would want a guy thats younger bc girls mature faster then boys and the girl would be mature in the realtionship and you would be immature. Just like your old relationsip all over again.

“there is only one person in true love, if you have fallen in love with 2 people, go for the 2nd, because if you really loved the 1st, than you wouldn’t have considered the 2nd.