why am i still dreaming bout my ex?

we’ve been each other for 2 yrs, i got pregnant….when im 6months preggy i decide to deliver our baby on my home town.so i went home ..but after i delivered my baby..i haven’t hear anything from him, text or phonecalls..its been 4yrs now, ive already move on, and have a new bf…but i hate it when i dream bout him..we didn’t have a formal break up..there’s alot of unanswered question,,so is it possible that he’s thinking of me, and was hoping that he gave a reason why he didn’t even tell me what happened….????????????

Answer #1

You could be dreaming about him because YOU have unanswered questions and YOU want an explanation. There was no closure and no closure can drive a person insane. Even after all these years, it’s understandable you’d still be constantly thinking about it. It might help to get a hold of him but it might not. Getting closure might help you sleep better at night, but make sure you don’t get your child involved. Just try to settle it and move on..

Answer #2

When i found out my boyfriend cheated on me i left him a message saying we’re over and then he never called me or fb or texted me back so i started dreaming about him. Its just like moe said- you need closure like me

Answer #3

your mind is so used to him that you feel your life with him isn’t over, like the end of one book in a series

Answer #4

i’ve try it..but i dont know why he wont want to talk me…i don’t even know why he didn’t call or text me

Answer #5

u could still have feelings about ur x and u may not know it there may be things u still like or miss about u x that u cant get over or u just wish u could have done more with ur x then u did…. ik how u feel its happened to me before….

Answer #6

u could still have feelings about ur x and u may not know it there may be things u still like or miss about u x that u cant get over or u just wish u could have done more with ur x then u did…. ik how u feel its happened to me before….

Answer #7

it could be because your not over him you still have questions that you didnt ask that could have saved the relationship or you still care about him

Answer #8

you dream about him because you have so many unanswered questions ,you want him give you an explanation!You cann’t stopping think about why he left without leaving anthing !Maybe you loved him so much that you want a closure even though you knew you had lost him forever!!Be happy ..Everthing is past ,what you have to cherish is what you own now!

Answer #9

its more of the feeling or the fact yu have a kid ..wit him but the thing is is he there for his child .. ?? cuz maybe also yuu want him to watch yur guys kid grow up ..

Answer #10

i do the same thing!

Answer #11

mayeb u need king cranley to soert u out. u wil drem abt me aftr im doen with u LOLOLOLOL

Answer #12

Dreams are largely made up of the salient features of our day. They help solidify the important things and get rid of the rest. Of course you are going to be thinking about him it’s a lot of what she’s saying here. You were left and I’m so sorry to hear that, your child will be associated with it’s father for the rest of his or her life. You dream of him because you love your child and you think about your child which also makes you think of him. If you want to stop dreaming about your Ex. Associate something or someone else with your child, find a new father and in time the dreams will fade and they will be replaced with the lovely ones of the new father. .

Answer #13

you could be dreaming about him cause you really miss him and still love him.

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