Dont get mad...get even?

A year and a half ago I moved school and the first person I met was this girl. I quickly made more friends but always remained mates with this girl. A few months into the friendship things started to change…she started to get ‘mean’. It was like if we had an arguement, which was usually caused by her, I would have to say sorry because she would make my life harder if I didnt. Now a few things to note about this girl is that she is very large, which theres nothing wrong with, only it makes her insecure. She also has the personality that goes from nice to bitch in a second because she is so defenesive. My other mates never got why I talked to her when she was clearly so horrible, only I guess you chose to see what you want to see? That applies to her. She lives in denial about the way she is. She has mates but not many because she drives them all away! Any way a year and half I spent defending her to people, backing her up, helping her (with school work), doing what she wanted-when she wanted ect and then came yesterday. Its too long to go into detail but she turned around and done something to me infront of people thats unforgivable. Although many thought she was out of order…and ‘sided’ with me on her being in the wrong…the point is she done it and I hate her for it. No matter how much I try I cant stop thinking of how dare she and how mad I am. She deserves her comeuppance and I want to be the one to give it to her. I want a ‘revenge’ thats going to teach her a lesson she wont forget and make her think next time she does something mean. I want something that will make her feel even a tenth of how she made me feel. Any ideas? I get that doing it will make me as bad as her, and wont help blah blah blah but I refuse to let her get away with what she has done to me. xXx

Answer #1

Don’t associate with her anymore, people like her don’t need to have time wasted for “revenge” upon themselves because she going to grow up as an old bag who no one likes and she will never be successful in life. If crap like that continues and you’ve done literally everything to ignore her, talk to your counselor, if you want to get into further detail send me a message and we can talk about it.

Just stop communicating with her, where ever you see her, stop going to that area to see her to avoid all kinds of communication. Don’t give her a mean look or anything, pretend as if you do not believe she exist. Stick to your school and you should do fine, nerds like myself never have to put up with crap like that, although I have been through it.

  • Gothik

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  • Anonymous
Answer #2

simple, get her out of you life! no revenge and all that immaturity, just get her out of your life stop talking to her you dont need the drama, she is nothing but trouble and hurt you alot so you need to forget about her, dont worry she will get hers back, just dont do it yourself becos you’ll be stooping down to her level!! she get hers trust me.

Answer #3

well another thing u can do is make her put the amount of cash u have to pay to fix the necklace for her to get her books back like have her put it in a place u tell her and u can put her books all over the school and each day u leave a note telling her where one book is after she pays u. but type it cause she maybe able to tell it is u

Answer #4

first wat did she do that is so bad?? and i think u should just fro get about her and not even do ne thing cuse it is goin top make matters wrost so get over it

Answer #5

what did she do to u

Answer #6

i would advize to just ditch her. that’s one of the worst things i can see that you’d be able to do. because then she’d be left with a void that you use to fill. like before, you were always there to comfort her, and then suddenly your not, and that will cause her to go in to a form of ‘self denial’ which is worse than anything you’d be able to do to her physically. best of luck! homestar_runner3

Answer #7

well she is a bitch and well you should pretend that you are freinds with her and go over her house and take something that is really special and break it can then put it back and then leave or u could some how jam here locker and then steel all her books and put them all over the school in other lockers that are open it will take her forever to get it all back or u could find out who she likes and go out with hinm.,,,

Answer #8

i could tell u what to do if i know what this girl did to u

Answer #9

well if u wanna get help think what to do to here u gotta tell what she did

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