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Does this sound bad?

Back in 7th grade, when I was 12, I had sex.

And it was with my boyfriend. And I some how agreed to do it… But I dont remember agreeing…

And yeah, we went in his room. And he was putting the condom on. And I was thinking to myself sitting half naked in my underwear just thinking “how the hell did I get myself into this one” and we got under the blankets, and im just telling myself “tell him no. You dont want to. Just say it just say it”

And he pulled my panties down. And I pushed on his chest and said I didnt want to anymore. And he said “oh, come on baby, its ok” and im told him I really did want to…

And he did anyways. And I was begging him to stop… And he wouldnt. And it hurt so badly! And I was screaming and crying begging him to stop… And still wouldnt. Then when he finished. Hes like “that wasnt bad. Was it?” and I just didnt say anything and sat in the corne of his bed thinking “how could I have just done that?”

And to this day I still dont know.. But ever since then… I’ve been obsessed with sex. After him. I dated this guy cody… And I stopped myself from having sex with him. This guy scott… Wow.. I had to have screwed that guy like 9 times… Then mike… 3 times…

And now were waiting til we’re married.. And im happy with that.

Anyways…

All my friends say thats rape… Is it? I mean.. He says I agreed to it…

Is it rape?

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Answer #1

It is rape. It could be child molestation depending on your state and possibly his age. (He could get in really big time trouble.) No matter what, you need (BADLY) counselling and / or therapy to deal with all sorts of issues. You may very well develop trust issues, relationship issues, sex issues (actually you already have those - “…but ever since then… I’ve been obsessed with sex…”) If you want to talk anonymously with someone, you might be able to get thru to Dr. Drew Pinsky. He has a radio show called Loveline that is broadcast on Grand Ledge station WJZL-FM 92.9 10 PM til midnight Sun-Thur. You can use a fake name, and try not to use other peoples actual names if possible Take care of yourself, and Good Luck!!

Answer #2

I think it sounds like rape if you kept telling him to stop.

Answer #3

YES that is rape !!! why would you do that if you were 12 anyway it is good that you r waiting till you were married but when you say skrewing someone it sounds worse.

Answer #4

You should have gotten yourself out of the situation to prevent it from happening earlier, but I would advise you go ahead and call it rape, but then at the same time it was not rape..you put yourself into the situation, but then he took advantage of the situation, so who knows? anyways, good luck.. xx. superfresh.

Answer #5

No, it was not rape. I advice you to forget it, or remember it like a not bad experience. Now you seem to enjoy sex, and that sounds healthy. You have no reason to make problems that boy. You went to his room, because you were curious of having sex. One minute before f*cking, you cannot stop all the guys to finish it. So try to find your inner peace eith this story. Once all the girls have to have their first time. You had that.

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