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Does this mean I am not good enough for him?

my boyfriend and I were virgins when we met, we have been 2gether for over a year now, and we smoked some maryjane 2gether and he told me he wants to know what it is like to have sex with another girl, I was upset over it for a few days after word then he just made the excuse that he was high and didn’t mean it, which I think is bs I want our relationship to remain pure, we want to marry each other and be together forever, I don’t know what to do, I can deal with a 3sum, but im not sure because I would get so jealous. Does it mean he doesn’t love me if he wants to experiance sex with another girl? does this mean I am not enough for him?

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Answer #1

Here’s the facts:

Guys are polygamous. Girls are monogamous.

That’s it, end of story, case closed. Now you know why we all have relationship problems.

If all the guys would belly up and provide tons of love and security to their women, and their women in turn would allow them to have another woman in a committed life long relationship parallel to theirs, every one would be happy.

But it won’t happen, we’re all too greedy and selfish. The guys because they can’t give of them selves totally to the girls, the girls because they can’t share their guys.

Answer #2

Ok, well, here’s my thing: Pot in, truth out. I think he actually meant that…

But no, it doesn’t mean you’re not good enough for him. Some guys just feel like knowin’ what it’s like to have sex with other girls… It’s kinda normal, actually. I know it’s not something nice to hear, but… that’s life.

Answer #3

you should ask him how he would feel if its the other way round.. it doesntmean your not good enough its just courisity but if he loves you which he properly does then he wouldnt let his curiosity turn into actions talk to him and tell him exactly how you fell.. good luck <3 x

Answer #4

Don’t be too hard on him. It’s a normal thing to want and think about. Why don’t you incorporate sexy stories into your fantasies and sex play with him? It doesn’t have to be real. Blindfold him. Tell him to imagine you’ve hidden a sexy girl in the closet. Then do all sorts of different things to him.

Make it fun, don’t make him feel guilty for expressing an honest thought. Then tell him you want him to dress up like a fireman (Just kidd’n…).

Answer #5

no he just means he doesnt want to be having sex with you the rest of his life. let him experiment with only ONE other girl and he will get over it

Answer #6

If he really wants to have sex with another girl while he’s with you…then he is not ready to be in a monogamous committed relationship at this time. From the way you presented him, you should be questioning whether he is good enough for you.

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