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Does my girlfriend want more?

ok, well I’ve been going out with my grilfriend for a long time now (about a year and a half) and I get this vibe that shes getting bored with what we do (with kissing and everything). and im only 15, so I dont want to rush into anything to far, as in sex. but I want to make her happy. so are there any little tricks that anybody uses or likes on them that I could use with my girlfriend, something new. and…I don’t know, unpredictable. becuse it seems she wants more, and I dont exactly know how to do that. so advice would be appreciated. thanks!

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Answer #1

Dear alltheworldsastage, First of all you need to stick with your values and morals here. You say she wants more…did she tell you that, have you discussed this with her. The most important part of a relationship in communication. If she says she wants more reminder that there is nothing 100% safe against pregnancy and is she ready to be a parent? Is she ready to stay home with a baby and forgo many years of her life? If she still insists then you need to reevaluate this relationship because it is crucial we respect our partners wishes. Perhaps she would be happy with a change in your routines. Try doing more fun things together like the movies, swimming, trying new restaurants, new skate parks and even try finding new friends you both like etc. Change your routine not your morals and values because you maybe paying for it for the rest of your lives. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

Like the other person said, communication is a major part of a relationship. Ask her. We have no idea what she wants, or at least I know I don’t, seeing as how I don’t know either of you. Ask her if she’s bored, and if she wants more. If she says yes, ask her what she wants.

Answer #3

hmmm, perhaps she want’s more of a relationship, a more meaningfull one perhaps? I know, learn to communicate more- as in; ask her what you are asking us- talking about meaningfull stuff might be a bit scary and weird to start with, but you soon get to feel how much closer you get to each other, and how happy she feels that you are becoming the sort of boy who asks about her deep feelings about stuff. She might be a bit shy at firsts, so keep asking her about what you want to know and she’ll start telling you.

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