Does my boyfriend still love his ex? please help!

Today, I had my litle cousins birthday party. My boyfriend took off from work to go to his cousins graduation party. I saw him yesterday, and he told me about his plans, but didn’t invite me to come along, and he had no idea I was actually busy today. I wondered why he didn’t invite me to go along, but I didn’t think too much about it at the time.

So anyways. The last time my boyfriend was over my house, he went on my computer to go on this message board he goes on frequently. I went to the message board just because I was bored and his username was still logged in. Out of curiosity, I looked under his latest posts and saw one on something called, “The Confession Topic.” He said that he was going to his cousins graduation party and his ex-girlfriend who he hasn’t really seen in two years will be there, but with her dad. They broke up because of his ex-girlfriend’s father, and from what I heard he was really in love with her and they dated for a year. On the message board my boyfriend also said he’s been talking to her a lot recently and that she’s single, and he’s not.

This is what part of his post says: “I did see her once a couple months ago at Bamboozle with her boyfriend at the time, but she snuck up behind me and caught me by surprise…it was kinda awkward, but I was still glad to see her, if only for a minute. This time I’ll be spending all day and night with her…we’ll see how it goes.”

I don’t know what to do. I’m so in love with him and it really hurts to see that he is thinking about hooking up with his ex. He said he would never cheat on me or hurt me in any way, and tells me he’s in love with me all the time. But I don’t know now.. Can anyone please give me advice? I’m a wreck right now :(

Answer #1

I’d say confront him, tell him you seen a weird web adress in your browser so you clicked on it to see what it was and as you were on it you were clicking around and seen something he wrote, and then you relised it was his account…tell him what you saw and how it hurts you and that you would feel better if he took you along with him. If he refuses tell him not to go then, and if he refuses about that then tell him it’s over…love is based on trust if you cant trust him and he’s not giving you a reason too then the relationship is already pretty much over.

Answer #2

I can’t…my boyfriend is at the party right now as I type this to you. I’m so nervous. He didn’t tell me she was going to be there when I saw him yesterday, I had to find out by myself and it’s really getting me depressed..

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