Does it hurt to get Fingered

ok if he says u “owe” him… i agree with the others. don’t do it bc u owe him….. do it bc u want to and if u aren’t ready tell him, and if he really likes you…… he will understand… OK???

ok

dont do it because he loves you and you owe it to him. do it because YOU want to try it and is interested in trying

You should never agree to anything a guy asks if he is putting the guilts on you to make you do things, becos guarenteed after you let him finger you he’ll say “i wanna have sex you owe me that” and you’ll feel pressured to have sex, i dont think you should let him do it at all, its not right when he asked you in such a way.

First thigns first: your boyfriend is a jerk. You do not owe him anything, and he has no right to say that to you.

Secondly: If he is gentle, and you are wet it shouldn’t hurt at all, it is a very pleasurable experience that is great to share with your partner. It is not supposed to hurt, and if at any time it does, tell him! he can change what he’s doing, or stop all together. It is meant to cause you pleasure, not pain.

Thirdly: Your parents will not know, unless you tell them.

and Last but not least: Orgasms are different for everyone, and no one “knows” how to have them. It’s the body’s responce to the stimulation it is receiving. Usually they are involuntary, and can involve muscle contractions and soulds, and an overall euphoric state of mind.

If you want to know more, I will share details with you through funmail.

~Tiffany~

They are right. Don’t do anything with a guy just to make him happy. If you’re not ready and it sounds like you’re not. Don’t do it. Cause who ever you’re with first will stay with you the rest of your life. There is no forgetting your first time. So make sure it’s with someone YOU really want to be with. If he gets mad he must not care for you very much. He just wants to have sex. Let him screw someone else’s life up. Your worth more than that.

i think u shouldn’t do it because i did it and it hurt really bad .. all ways think befor you let it go.

I agree with Tiffany, your boyfriend sounds no good and he sounds manipulative, I would get out of this relationship if i were in your shoes. Be careful.

Jason

it doesnt hurt.

No it doesent it feels great I turned 13 last night and a fit boy got really pissed and we had sex and a 69er it feels great it was my first time but I love him so ynno he shuved his whole fist up my vagina and licked me out I felt great I pleasured it and while he fingered me I got off with him I knew I owed him somethink so while he was hard I lifted his balls up and licked underneath them slowly while he gave me amazing oral sex. He has really strong arms he’s 16 so I trusted him he tipped me upside down while I gave him a blowy and while he licked me out and popped my cherry with his tounge. He bent me over and stripped me and him while he gave it to me doggy style (amazing) if you love your partner it’ll be okay he said to me he loves me and he said ill shove finger up at a time at first he got to a fist but then he mastabate and cummed and we had a rainbow kiss we swollowed it and then while we did that he shoved both hands up my vagina and clunched his fist I licked him out and gave him a blowjob the cummed about 13 timed in a minuite but the fingering was the best make orgasms its amazing and if he stops having sex with you grab his hands and put em on your boobs while you open your vagina and shove his penis up your vagina untill you pop your cherry. You’ll know when your cherry pops as you make really loud orgasims and to see if it feelt good add about 11 markers up your vagina 1 at a time its great and keep them their about 20 mins and it’ll feel amazing pull them out and pussy cum will come out and get him to liclk it then feel better to get fingered by him. Honestly its going to be the most amazing thing you feel and its really pleasureable trust me. Make him lick your body and you lick his. Get him too kneel on the bed/surface sit on him get him to go hard shove his penis up your vagina and let him make love to your boobs while you lick his neck, ear or back. Hope my advice helps!

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