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Well I've been in love with my ex for a year. We mett online from a close friend of mine. However I have never seen him in person we sorda had an online relationship and thats one of the reasons why we were on and off. After we broke up we were beneficial. I mett some other guy and I went out with him just to give it a shot, then I find out hes dateing other girls. Months pass and he comes back begging for another chance telling me he only went out with other girls cause he wanted to give them a chance and that he only got to like them. I don't give him another chance but we only become good friends, he took it bad. I loose internet connection and I can't get online to talk to him but I tell my friend to go check my mail and she tells me I have messages from him saying how much he misses and loves me. Since me and him didnt keep much in touch he decides to go to war but then when we start talking again he changes his mind. And when we talk we talk only as friends nothing else and we barely talked. A month later he tells me he loves me and sends me kissy faces he also sends me one of our old conversations when we were beneficial. I get the verge that he wants to get back with me but hes just worried I might reject him. So I wait. Week later I find out he has a new born and hes a father. At first I ask him about it he changes the subject but then he admits it. I get mad thinking that he told me he loved me when there was this girl haveing a baby in her stomach and hes the daddy. So I start to talk about this one guy to him and he tells me I shouldnt go for him that hes going to rape me and he starts to say I replaced him. And he ignores me and when I talk about my guy friends he also ignores me ass well. I want to make him jealous so I pretend I have a boyfriend and thats when I start to hear that hes engaged with the mother of the new born. I really do still love him but I don't know if he loves me back. He's been single for 2 months ever since I didn't give him a 2nd chance. I need some help or advice. I know that the best thing might be to move on but its really hard to forget about him after everything weve been through. He's a big flirt and talks to a lot of girls and sometimes out of no where he instant messages me or comments my profile pictures.. yet I don't know what to do. Someone please tell me what to do.
I had a girl pregnant once, and I am still with her (5 years). Some women can be so unpleasant when they are pregnant, as in my case. I found myself talking to my ex for moral support though that time. I may have even said how much I loved her, cause I did, but I would never leave the mother of my child. Not cause I love her, cause we don't get along very much, but that has been getting better; but because I love my son so much. I never cheated physically, but I did search for feelings I was not getting from the mother of my kid, because she was so miserable.
I guess what I am saying is: it is ok to be a friend, but don't get used as a blowup doll. Peace, Sting
hey sis! I know this is hard for you to forget him, I can feel it too. Well, are you still love him and sure that you want him to get back with you?? if you are sure about this, maybe you can give him second chance but remember you have to make sure that he will never cheat or flirt with another girls. I f he did that again, I am sorry you have to leave him, maybe he is not your perfect love.
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goodluck sis!
Ok, now read what you just typed and tell me if it made sense or not. Well, it made sense, but it didn't make sense for you to ask this question when the answer is pretty much there. You are nothing(and don't take this too hard) but a person he can talk to online. If he were someone you knew in real life, I doubt he'd have another girl's child right now. He needed something physical and you do too.
I don't know how I can give him a second chance when hes engaged. And I don't know if he wants to get back with me after everything that happened with him and the baby and the other girl. I just don't know if he loves me anymore..
hey sis! I know this is difficult, so dont be sad sis! Another man is waiting for you...Maybe he is not your perfect man...
Goodluck sis!!! You can do it!!!