Does He Still Love Her?

I meet my current boyfriend Chris about a year ago, of course at that point in time he was sleeping with Anna, a coworker of mine. He had just moved to San Diego and didnt know anybody so he fell for her right away. anyways, They had a pretty rocky relationship, due to the fact that she was married and was still seeing somebody else other than Chris, so you can say there was a lot of cheating and fighting going on, but she as a kid which chris fell in love with and treated him like his own son so I guess they also had a lot of good times, so it was pretty much 50/50. She decided to go into the army and stay with her husband so she left Chris brokenhearted, I was there to console him as a friend but I learned that he loved her deeply and that she had hurt him really bad. Three months went by he hadnt heard from her, and we had kept going out and we started to fall for eachother and we were happy in our relationship and everything was going great, and then I learned that she had gotten hurt at bootcamp and was coming back, we talked about it and he promised me he was over her and that he cared for me and that this was not going to break us up. The first day she got back he broke up with me claiming that he needed to be alone cause he did not know what he wanted, so I gave him his space, not two days passed and when he came looking for me telling me he wanted me that he realized he loved me (he did not talk to her, he dicided that for himself I know that for a fact) anyways he begged me to take him back and I do love him so I did, so everything went back to being great as always, until she started looking for him, sayin that she missed his body and wanted him back, that she could never get enough of him, and he made it clear to her that he was with me now, so she said that it was fine as long as they kept being friends. I would be fine with the fact that they would want to remain friends cause she was her only friend when he moved here but not if shes sayin he wants to get back with him and since he turned her down then resinged to just being friends. I DONT TRUST HER.

And the thing that kill me is that he wants to keep talking to her, sayin that they are good friends. I checked his phone while he was taking a bath and found 2 txt messages of her asking about how our relationship is going and that shes happy for us. but I also checked whos callin who, and appearantly the one doing the calin is my boyfriend…what can I do?? does it means he still loves her??? I really love him a lot I do not want to lose him, but im positive that if they keep being friends sooner or later they will end up sleeping together cause I know how much he loved her and I know he still cares, and I could never forgive an infidelity, how do I get this person away from us for good. PLEASE HELP

Answer #1

OH WOW!! THIS IS A VERY INTENSE SITUATION…I KNOW SOMEONE TOLD ONE THING THAT I WILL NEVER FORGET…NEVER TRUST ANYONE COMPLETELY…IM NOT TRYING TO MAKE you UPSET..BUT HOW DO you FEEL ABOUT CONFRONTING HIM ABOUT THE CALLS?? I KNOW HE MITE TELL U…””‘WHY WERE you looking THRU MY PHONE AND YADA YADA YADA…”” BUT THE THING IS THAT you FOUND SOMETHING!!! TRUST ME I HACKED INTO MY boyfriend EMAIL AND FOUND STUFF…YA KNOW?? SO I CONFRONTED HIM AND GOT MAD BUT because OF THAT IM ALWAYS SCARED HE IS going to DO IT AGAIN because HE DID IT ONCE…BE HONEST WITH HIM AND TELL HIM THAT WHAT HE IS DOING IS HURTING YOU!! YA KNOW? BUT DONT ATTACK HIM IF you KNOW WHAT I MEAN? LOL..JUST LET HIM KNOW HOW you FEEL…AND TELL HIM THAT HE IS NOT going to FIND ANOTHER GIRL LIKE YOU…AND BESIDES MAKE HIM RALIZE THAT WHAT KIND OF GIRL SLEEPS WOTH 2 GUYS BEING AND BEING MARRIED TO SOMEONE…THAT DOESNT TALK GOOD ABOUT THAT GIRL…YA KNOW? you SHOULD KINDA MAKE HIM REALIZE THAT THAT GIRL DONT EVEN REACH YOU…U ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT GIRL…!! YA KNOW?? LEMME KNOW HOW THINGS TURNED OUT.. =] I HOPE I HELPED!!!

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