Does he still love her?

It all started in September 03 My b/f was dating this girl Sam well we were good friends and I could tell he really loved her he talked about her all the time well she broke up with him and it was hard for him to get over her but he did it. 3 mnoths later he asked me out and we've been going 2gether for 5 mnoths and I really love him and he says he loves me but lately Sam has been coming back in the picture. He talks about when they were dating and whenever I'm not around and yet I'm looking he is always talking to her and flirting with her when I see him the only thing I can think of is how much he cared about her. So I finally asked him who was the best girlfriend he had ever had his reply was "Sam" I was really hurt by this so I asked if he still had feelings for her and he said No but he still flirts with her and talks to her about her b/f's. Can I trust him or should I break up with him before I get hurt Please help me I'm so confused!!!

thanks bunches brandonsgirl

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Answer #1

Your questions are "Can I trust him or should I break up with him before I get hurt"

I think you have already answered the 'can I trust him' question. Because you whole post tells us that you do not. And if he is openly flirting with an old girlfriend in front of you. Have you asked him to stop doing that? He should be sensitive to your feelings. If he refuses to understand how him hanging around and flirting with an old girl friend might threaten you. Then you have to ask yourself IS this the type of BF you want.

Now, "Should you break up with him before you get hurt?" This is a game we all play with ourselves. Because if you broke up with him now, you already would be hurt. Wouldn't you? So, in that sense you'd save yourself nothing.

Some girls like to do the breaking up rather than the being broken up with. Why, I don't know. I'd rather give my all, love somebody 100%. Then if we broke up, I could walk away knowing I'd loved him 100%—-and it wasn't good enough. Knowing that would help me.

Hope something in this answer helps you. Blessings and good luck

Answer #2

How you going to let your man flirt wit somebody y you aint lookin n u rite there. YOU JUST LETTING HIM DISRESPECT U YOU NEED TO RIP IT ON HIM AND IF HE DONT GET WIT IT DEN MOVE ON .

Answer #3

No, not a chance

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