Does this guy with mixed signals like me?

hey… wel I met this really nyc guy, in the begining he treated me like a queen, he was every thing I had hoped for,but one nite I was visiting him an we almost had sex (which by the way we wre both virgins) somehow we never really did it. I mean you wud have sore that this guy was inlove with me, he’d make sure he called me every day, sms’d me in da morning just to tell me to have a wonderful day, HE WAS SO GUD TO ME. then one day I went to his house again, it was like a chill session. we went outsyd just the two of us we spoke, he told me how much he thought of me, each and everyday etc, then we went insyd, in the bedroom tnen we had sex for the very first tym… oh and did I mention that at that tym I was seeing another guy. so the other guy found out I was dating the guy I slept with, he asked me about it and I confessed, he seemed to not mind at all,(wel thats because he was probably cheating on me to) and besydes in a way you cud ve sworn we weren dating, he never acted like he was my man… anyw I was ao scared that the guy I sleep with wud find out, I really really liked him and didn want to lose him, so I called him and confessed, he took it kinda hard, I then sent him an sms that sed I loved him he never replyed, a few days pasted I called him he told me he was fyn and apreciated that I had told him. everything was resolved, but things started changin he wasn calling me as much as he did etc, so I decided to end it even though I still loved him, I felt as if I was starting to lose him, and I was getting attached(so rather get out before its too late) he called me and asked if we wre ever going out in the first place, uhh I was so furious, and at that tym I had heard he had slept with sum gal, but he denyed it anyw we had resolved that and that same day I went to his house we made out we acted like 2 people dating, everything was just normal and the whle of that evening he keep saying he wants to tell me sumtg HE NEVA… we spoke the next day I asked him what he wanted to tell me… he told me that we weren datin (on da other hand I thought we wre) I asked him what we wre doing then, he sed he didn’t know!!! I mean really?! well I told him I didn’t knw aswel…he decided that we sud b friends I agreed bt really hurt cz I had slept with him…wel our friendship was going very wel he was very nyc to me and you cud tel that he stil had feelings for me… he had sed he wants to try this whle friendship first… wiks pasted I grew to like him even more I cudn stop thinking of him, and he kept giving me mixed signal one day his nyc the next his somehow..2wiks ago I told him I stil had feelings for him, he didn’t say anything, he acted as if I never even sed anything BUT he was TOO nyc. my friend are telling me I sud just give him tym to figure out things!!! his really a ncy person hey and I want him back… PLS HELP ME WHAT SUD I DO

Answer #1

thts rough but im a guy to and ive had girls pull this on me ive treated them like queens its how human beings are we are all lawyers at heart. i suggest you move on a bit give him some to to work around his stuff if he really loves you to then itll work out allright and if he lets it die this isnt enough for you hes not worth it

Answer #2

All i see now is…this guy got what he wanted from you, and is no longer interested! So many girls make the mistake of sleeping with a boy they like without being in a long commited relationship with them, and this is what happens! You have to realize hun…there are ALOT of guys out there that just want sex. They will act like they like the girl, and sweet talk them into getting what they want, then they just move on to the next! It wasnt you he was really interested in, but the sex!

Answer #3

tweety,

Questions that are posted with correct spelling will get you much better answers. You’ve spelled almost every word wrong here (including “the” and “time”). Try to type slowly and think about what you’re writing to get best results.

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