Does he just like me for my body?

ok well this boy who I really like and he says hes in love with me said this to me:

“we cud go behind the school if no ones there. if someone is then we cud go somewere else then I will pull you tight and make out and grabb your butt. then ill get you tighter and grab your butt more then kiss dwn your neck till I get to your boobs and then feel you up and dwn till I get you so horny =]”

I really like him and hes not pressuring me at all. im actually really excited and I want him to do this. im 14 and I havent done anything with a boy except peck on the lips. I know im ready … I told him he couldnt kiss my boobs though, I have no problem with saying no. but, whenever a boy says something like this to me I always freak out and get really nervous and bail. I dont want to do this to him. I want to know what can boost my confidence.

I also want to know if he really likes me or just likes me for my body..

thanks! =]

Answer #1

I’ve known him for 4 years tho and thats only one side of him. he has a whole nuther side and we wanna see if when we hang out it will work before we go out again he wants to date me he said he wants me all to him.

Answer #2

You have no problem with a boy USING you? Because thats what hes going to do. How about having alittle self respect Hun. If your not in a commited relationship with him why on earth would you even allow him to feel you up? Hes NOT in “love” with you, because if he was he would treat you as a person, NOT an object!!

Answer #3

I agree with u ^^^

I say if you want to go ahead, dont let him get to far if your not ready tho. [:

Answer #4

who said anything about sex? he basically just wants to make out and feel me…

Answer #5

your only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you, make a decision that your not gonna regret or thats gonna stuff up your friendship.think about it.keep it PG untill you meet the right guy.:)

Answer #6

Ok- if you just met the guy or just starting talking to this guy and he is talking dirty - then right now he only wants you for your body. BUT if you make him wait a little bit you can give him the chance to like you for you. If you do make out with him early on, dont expect him to fall in love with you later. Honey, I dont know him but I can tell you with 100% certainty he is not in love with you- dont let him play you like that. Nothin wrong with making out - but dont waste it on a guy that doesnt really care about you. Test him! Say you really aren’t ready- let him show you what he is really about.

Answer #7

Sex is a PERSONAL CHOICE

Answer #8

u serious uve been dating him for 4 years and all uve done is a peck on the lips huney child!!! you need help! if your just now asking this question and have just realised he does this then he has changed big time and you need to make him change back since hes playin around with you a bit play with him or just straight up ask him do you like my body? or do you like me for me and if he says you then tell him to prove it to u

Answer #9

ahah well your not gonna listen to the people who say wait til marriage. so I will give you a realistic response, hes just talking dirty, he may or may not just want you for your body. if its just making out, and feeling up, its not that big of a deal. but dont take it further. if you wanna know if he wants you just for that, make him wait awhile, and dont give him anything…

Answer #10

nooo! I havent beeen dating him for 4 yearrrs! lmaoo I’ve been dating himj for about a monthhh ahhaha we’ve beeen friends for 4 yearss ahaha

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