does anyone have anyideas ??? =[

also my famıly ıs lıke urs ıwe are movıng all the tıme when ı say that ı wanna stay at my country they are lıke do we look lıke we care your ıdea and actually ı dont know what to do maybe you should just lıve wıth ıt ıf you have an adult that wıll lıke your after you lıke you saıd your grandma ıf your famıly let you go stay wıth her ı bet ıt wıll be better

yeah I know. its fun to be able to recreate yourself. I’ve done it quite a few times. I’ve even lived in japan for 6 years in a LOT of differnt places there. I’m just sick of having to make good friend and get close to people and then having them just be gone the next year. well I did talk to my parents about lettig me stay with my grandma before. because truthfully my grandma I love more than my parents always have. well they just told me that she didet want me and dident care about me and yes I know its a lye. but it still hurts and I want to tell my grandma or outher family but I dont really know how to say it over the phone and I dont know if pitting it down in an e-mail will work. she and most of my famile relatives ect. live in a differnt state.

First of all, do you have another adult there whom you trust enough to tell them what is going on? Unfortunately it is your parent’s choice as to where you live. However, if your grandmother will let you stay with her then maybe SHE can talk your parents into letting you stay with her. It is worth a shot. If you need to e mail your grandmother then do so. It would be better to ask her over the phone or even in person. Do you think your grandmother could make a trip to where you live now? If so that would be a good start. As far as saying it…talk to someone first who is ouside your family. Maybe you have a friend who’s parents you can talk to. A counselor at school or even call the Boys and Girls National Hotline at 1-800-448-3000. They may be able to help you out. Good luck. I hope everything works out for you.

One last thing - I had the most fun with moves when I came to the realization that it was like another chance to recreate myself. At school I started going by a nickname that I chose which was easier to do when I started a new school rather than one I had been in for a few years.(just tell the teachers it’s what you go by and have them put it on the roll sheet for calling you. You don’t have to explain the name to anyone so if they ask just say people call me that and I prefer it.) took new electives, looked around town for things I could get into (volunteering at animal shelters, whatever floats your boat) and joining school clubs.

yes. I do. have anouther adult. I’m going to ask my grandma and see what she says. attempting to do somthing and failing is better than doing nothing. thanks. and I think im going to write what I’m going to say down first then read it to her on the phone because everytime I get ready to tell someone how I feel my mind just goes blank and I cant find the rite wwords.