Does anyone else feel like the ugly duckling?

alright so right now I currently feel like the ugly duckling =[ I never think im pretty not even an ounce…and I hate looking at pictured and seeing every body that seems so pretty! I hate it! not to mention the people who always treat the “ugly” people very badly. I know im not pretty and I probly never will be. I also know that looks arnt everything and that true beauty is deeper than the surface but it seems like no one believes this. im not looking for compliments and im not asking if im pretty (because I no its a no) but im just mad that im not. I never ever feel pretty and everytime somebody looks at me I feel like they are thinking I am the ugliest person. I hate it! nobody has ever called me pretty and it just makes you feel really bad. people always say that you will grow into your self and that the “ugly” people always end up pretty but I am really not believeing that. I mean I have a very long face and I have a bridge in my nose and my ears are big and my eyes are small I am just plain ugly but I hate feeling this way and I was just wondering if any one else feels this way besides me? p.s I dont want any mean answers saying im just looking for a compliment or that you are tired of people asking this question!

Answer #1

I have the same problem, well apart from mines not as worse. Your not ugly, maybe you think you are but ure not. Maybe you not with the right people if they dont say you are pretty. Beauty lies within

Answer #2

sometimess but neahhh

Answer #3

EVERYBODY has felt that way at some point of their life. No worries. Nobody is ugly(: We are all beautiful(: we are NOT perfect. Nobody is. [:

Answer #4

you have nooo idea. people at school even call me duck bc I look like one. lol but yes I always feel ugly.

Answer #5

I feel this everyday. Guys at school say that I look like sh*t. I come home crying almost everyday… I did today. I know what they’re saying is true but it’s still hard to take in and listen to it everyday.

Answer #6

hun!!! first off…screw what other people think. it took me 21 years to figure this out. I always compared myself to girls I saw on tv, girls in my class, and girls in magazines. then I realized… there are beautiful things about me that those girls don’t have. your ears, your nose… those are things unique to you! embrace them!!

if everyone was a tall skinny model and looked the same… then beauty would be judged by personality and intelligence. and trust me…there are plenty of beautiful people out there that are ugly inside. sounds like you know you are a good person. AWESOME! go with that… you can have joy on the inside that shows through! someday a man will fall in love w/ your ears and nose, because they are you!

actions you can take to feel beautiful :

try a new hair color give yourself a manicure new shirt! listen to beyonce’s b-day cd. (makes you LOVE being a woman.) and this is the most important one…

every day, when you wake up, look in the mirror. tell yourself you are beautiful 3 times. you'll feel silly at first and not believe yourself... but as your confidence builds up over a couple months... you'll realize its true!! I've done that since I was 11... and it helps! promise.

take care hun :D

Answer #7

The funny thing about girls is that, we all think that we are the first ones to feel this way when it happens we feel so alone but I want you to take a second and look at al these girls who have replied telling you we all feel this I have felt it, im 19 and sometimes I still cry because I dont feel pretty every single girl in the world “even the ones who are modles and cheerleaders” have felt this

Answer #8

OMG I always feel like that!you are not alone!I looked at your pics.U are GORGOUS!!!I am just a big nerd!

Answer #9

I feel that way all the time. I cry sometimes also, because I feel so bad about myself, I also have a very low self esteem. your not ugly hunny and you will never know how pretty you really are unless u stop listening to everyone else! I know I really shouldnt be telling you tis because I cant do it either, I should take a doss of my own medicine lol, any ways your not ugly SHUT UP lol. I wasnt bein serious… ;-)

Answer #10

FEEL LIKE AN UGLY DUCKLING…DONT 4GET THAT UGLY DUCKLING GROWS UP 2 B A BEAUTIFUL SWAN!! you NEED TO HAVE MORE CONFIDENCE IN URSELF!! I’ve JUST LOOKED TA your PICS AN I THINK your BEAUTIFUL! BUT ME TELLING you THAT ISNT GUNA CHANGE your MIND ON HOW you FEEL ABOUT URSELF, you NEED 2 GET MORE SELF ESTEEM HUNY because your BEAUTIFUL!! XX

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