Doctors, Payment & Possibly Pregnant

Ok, this is my friends account. She recently had the same problem as me and suggested I try asking this site. I tried making my own account but for some reason I never got the verification emails and I couldn’t figure out how to resend them (if you know how to do that could you private mail this account please ?)

Firstly, please don’t comment me to tell me how stupid I have acted. I am painfully aware of this and I wish I hadn’t done what I’ve done. I don’t need you to call me a ‘slut’ or anything like that, I looked up at some of the questions relating to mine and they have received quite a lot of negative comments. I’m asking for help not put downs.

My boyfriend and I found ourselves ‘caught in a moment’ around three weeks ago and had sex with considering the consequences or even really talking about it. He came outside of me, and assured me nothing was wrong and it was fine. However I’ve been worrying about the pre-cum and I haven’t had my period this month. Usually it comes late in the month in the second or last week but I’m quite worried it’s not going to come at all. I’ve also been experiencing breast tenderness but from memory this also happened a month or two ago for no apparent reason so I thought this may have been linked with my periods.

Is it too early for signs like breast tenderness to be occurring ? Am I over analysing things ?

I told my boyfriend my periods haven’t come yet, and his begun to worry a bit about it. So we started talking about what we should do. We’ve decided if they don’t come this month to get a test, if the test is positive we plan on going to the doctors. However I don’t want to tell my mother and father about it as soon as I found out its possible. I want to go to the doctors talk to them myself without my parents and make my own decision because I think that my parents would try to make my decision for me if I told them and I believe my boyfriend and I need to make our decision on what to do ourselves. As far as I know the doctor can’t tell my parents what we’ve talked about unless it’s a danger to me or something ? (In Australia anyway). However I’m concerned about the payment. My boyfriend said I would need a medicare and the only card I’m on is our family card.

Would my family be billed for this ?

He then said that we probably didn’t need a medicare card for the local GP, so how much would it generally cost to go and see the doctor to talk about the options we had and that ?

Any advice would be great, Thank you!