Do you rely on looks or personality

so me and my friend are pretty similar. we both kinda shy and we both wanna gain muscle.

his plan is to work on his muscles and wait until the girls start giving him more attention and that will give him confidence

my plan is too talk to a lot a girls and work on my personality and people skills and talking skills and working out also

im trying to convince him that you dont need muscles to be attractive. I might be a little bias in my description but what do you guys think.

Answer #1

I personally go more for personality. ya its great if a guy is hot but if there is no personality then why bother.

Answer #2

I think that you’re right. Honestly, if a guy looks hott, that’s great, but it’s NOTHING if he’s a dud in the personality! Balance is key. Don’t give girls all the attention, they wont feel like it’s a “game”…and loose interest fast. Don’t pay all your attention to working out either. If you do, girls wont bother. Go for a good balance. AND make sure NOT to like, flaunt that you work out to the girls. Looking arrogant is looking stupid. I hoped I helped! You can message me if you need

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