Do you guys believe in the saying

if you love something hold on to it unless its unhealthy or your being played for a fool for example if you have a boyfriend and he doesnt treat you right then let go and find yourself a real boyfriend x

The point is give them the freedom to leave. If they decide to come back or stay, then that’s real love

Never take things to literally…

Depending on the guy, there will come a point when a relationship becomes too stifling for him. When he leaves, it often doesn’t mean he’ll leave for good (unless you’ve given him good reason to). He leaves because he wants to have a breather - a time to reflect on his life in general - and that includes the woman he loves.

I think your real fear here is what he’s going to do once he leaves, isn’t that it? Remember what I wrote here about them leaving for a good reason? I’m so sorry to say this but we guys aren’t often at fault for ruining a relationship. We believe in love that lasts but we can’t be always bearing the burden to keep the love alive. Be demanding always, every time and we will really leave - because for us, it’s like it never was enough for you, we were never too good for you.

You girls are human, we know - so are we guys.

If ever you’re seeing someone, try to be as unforgettable as possible - do something for him that no girl has ever done before for him (if he’s had a girlfriend before) or something that he hasn’t known that girls can do for a guy but never give up something that is most precious to you and that will hurt your reputation in the eyes of others. Try to be together and give him space when he wants to - it may hurt you but nevertheless if he shows his true colors inspite of your good faith in him, the very least you were spared greater hurt in the end. It was his loss then, and your gain.

the best that you can do is choose boys carefully - never pick guys because they look good or have a great personality. It pays to choose someone who is complement - guys who need you as much as you need them..

I hope I helped…