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DO they hate me?
Last church day I go with my family. But I’m getting weird looks from everyone there. I’m getting really turned off with my faith because I’m being called a filthy sinning you know… However no one had approched my parents about this. I am afraid someone might and say something like your son is talking to boys in this church in the most innapropriate way. I don’t! I just talk. And smile a lot. is it wrong or something? So anyways, last church day I go with some black nail polish and I decided to wear all of my piercings. And dress the way I normally dress. I was in a hurry. As soon as the Usher ( I think thats how you spell it) saw me he wouldn’t let me in me parents were inside. And I was stuck for 4 hours outside. I just don’t want things to get worse. How do I fix this and does the church hate me?
the people at that church are stubborn and are beng disrespectful to you they probably think you worship satan or something just because of your nailpolish and peircings that or they just think youll scare everyone else because they are just as stubborn and dont accept people who dont dress “normal” unfortunanlty, those kind of stupid thoughts dont just go away because most chrsitians dont accept other peoples religions or other peopels way of dressing usually if you wear black or have body modificatons, they think your evil what you wear doesnt make you any less human, it doesnt change anything you do its a style of dress next tme you go there stand up for yourself say something like “no, this is the way I dress, you cant refuse my entry just because I decided to dress the way I like, my family members are in there and I am going in to join them, step aside and stop judging me like a child would,” just go in or if you dont want to go in, go do something else the church people just dont like the way your dressed because there stubborn and think people who wear black, ect are evil or something so just walk in, tell them to grow up, sit down and enjoy on the other hand im a proud athiest and dont find anything about god or church enjoyable but if its what you love, just walk in they cant refuse your entry because your “god” doesnt care what you wear he didnt make up any rules saying you cant wear that he didnt even say you cant have body modifications PEOPLE who wrote the bible said that and you dont have to listen to them
I think they just dont want to accept you because your not the usual, or perfect looking person in the churches eyes. it happens all over in all churches,. especially the traditonal baptist ones I grew up in. just be yourself and continue to believe in your faith. the only one you have to worry about is your god and yourself
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